communication (2016-17) Flashcards

1
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listen

A

communication do

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2
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look the person in the eyes

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communication do

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3
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interrupt

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communication don’t

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4
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ask questions

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communication do

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5
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raise your voice or yell

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communication don’t

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6
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call names or label

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communication don’t

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7
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hear a person out

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communication do

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8
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blame

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communication don’t

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9
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force or threaten

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communication don’t

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10
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resist distractions

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communication do

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11
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laugh at people

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communication don’t

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12
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be open minded

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communication do

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13
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assume you understand

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communication don’t

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14
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make snap judgments

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communication don’t

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15
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say “always” or “never”

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communication don’t

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16
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assume responsibility for a to way dialogue

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communication do

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17
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give advice when not asked

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communication don’t

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18
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have ear buds in while talking to someone

A

social media don’t

19
Q

silence your phones in a class or meeting

A

social media do

20
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post before you think

A

social media don’t

21
Q

use apps or websites inappropriately

A

social media don’t

22
Q

remove your ear buds

A

social media do

23
Q

use cell phone when in class or meeting

A

social media don’t

24
Q

report online bullying

A

social media do

25
Q

monitor your accounts

A

social media do

26
Q

forget everything is permanent

A

social media don’t

27
Q

monitor who is taking your photo

A

social media do

28
Q

use it as a forum for bullying

A

social media don’t

29
Q

think before you post

A

social media do

30
Q

what are the four kinds of listeners and are they negative or positive

A

careless -
narrow -
defensive -
careful +

31
Q

gets bits of conversation. they take words and meaning out of context and are thinking of what to say instead of listening

A

careless (whisper) listener

32
Q

hears only what they want to hear

A

narrow listener

33
Q

reads meaning into what is said and always feels like they are being attacked (triggered)

A

defensive listener

34
Q

looks at the person who is talking
pays attention to the persons words
is aware of feelings that go with the words
says something to show they are listening

A

careful listener, best kind

35
Q

effective techniques for saying “no”

A

refusal skills

36
Q

examples of refusal skills

A

avoid situations you know you will be pressured in

use “I” messages

37
Q

three ways people respond to pressure

A

passive response -
aggressive response -
assertive response +

38
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passive response

A

choosing not to express ones needs or opinions and allowing yourself to just go along

39
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aggressive response

A

hostile, push, hurtful behavior

reacting instead of responding

40
Q

assertive response

A

standing up for yourself in a firm, positive way
showing respect for yourself
showing respect for the needs and opinions of others

41
Q

three steps to saying no in a fight

aka how to be a pussy and not square up

A

1) state clearly ur answer is no.
2) let the other person know that you understand their position (empathy)
3) calmly and firmly restate your position

42
Q

what are the three C’s

A

commitment
cooperation
compromise

43
Q

what are the three R’s

A

respect
rights
responsibility