communication (2016-17) Flashcards

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listen

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communication do

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look the person in the eyes

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communication do

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interrupt

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communication don’t

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ask questions

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communication do

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raise your voice or yell

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communication don’t

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call names or label

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communication don’t

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hear a person out

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communication do

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blame

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communication don’t

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9
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force or threaten

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communication don’t

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10
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resist distractions

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communication do

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laugh at people

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communication don’t

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12
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be open minded

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communication do

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13
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assume you understand

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communication don’t

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14
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make snap judgments

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communication don’t

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15
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say “always” or “never”

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communication don’t

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16
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assume responsibility for a to way dialogue

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communication do

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give advice when not asked

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communication don’t

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18
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have ear buds in while talking to someone

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social media don’t

19
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silence your phones in a class or meeting

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social media do

20
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post before you think

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social media don’t

21
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use apps or websites inappropriately

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social media don’t

22
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remove your ear buds

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social media do

23
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use cell phone when in class or meeting

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social media don’t

24
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report online bullying

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social media do

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monitor your accounts
social media do
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forget everything is permanent
social media don't
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monitor who is taking your photo
social media do
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use it as a forum for bullying
social media don't
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think before you post
social media do
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what are the four kinds of listeners and are they negative or positive
careless - narrow - defensive - careful +
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gets bits of conversation. they take words and meaning out of context and are thinking of what to say instead of listening
careless (whisper) listener
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hears only what they want to hear
narrow listener
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reads meaning into what is said and always feels like they are being attacked (triggered)
defensive listener
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looks at the person who is talking pays attention to the persons words is aware of feelings that go with the words says something to show they are listening
careful listener, best kind
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effective techniques for saying "no"
refusal skills
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examples of refusal skills
avoid situations you know you will be pressured in | use "I" messages
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three ways people respond to pressure
passive response - aggressive response - assertive response +
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passive response
choosing not to express ones needs or opinions and allowing yourself to just go along
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aggressive response
hostile, push, hurtful behavior | reacting instead of responding
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assertive response
standing up for yourself in a firm, positive way showing respect for yourself showing respect for the needs and opinions of others
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three steps to saying no in a fight | aka how to be a pussy and not square up
1) state clearly ur answer is no. 2) let the other person know that you understand their position (empathy) 3) calmly and firmly restate your position
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what are the three C's
commitment cooperation compromise
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what are the three R's
respect rights responsibility