Chapter Eight Flashcards
Families
Parent-child relationship begins to change in this stage of life. Less time is spent together, children gain more autonomy, and control is shifting
Co-regulation (middle to late childhood)
Parents begin to slowly transfer more power and independence to the child, reinforcing a secure attachment
Peers
Peers are partners who negotiate, compromise, share, and defend themselves as equals
Bullying
Repeated, systematic attacks intended to harm those who are unable or unlikely to defend themselves
The types of bullying
- Physical (hitting, shoving, etc)
- Verbal (teasing, name calling, etc)
- Relational (destroying peer acceptance)
- Cyberbullying (using electronic means to harm others)
Typical goal of bullying
To gain power
Long term effects of bullying on the bullies
Former bullies are at a much higher risk of dying young, going to jail, and having destructive marriages
Long term effects of bullying on the victims
Former bullying victims are at a much higher risk of becoming depressed, suicidal, socially rejected, and have declining mental health
Concept of self (middle to late childhood)
A self consciousness starts to form, comparing ones self to the peers around, specifically in regards to physical appearance, material possessions, and abilities
Social comparison
We begin to critically examine ourselves in relation to others social standing, physical appearance, and material items
Perspective taking
Assuming the perspectives of others and understanding their thoughts and feelings
Middle to late childhood peers
Children tend to choose quantity over quality, and mostly same sex friend groups. This is when they usually begin to have socialization without adult supervision
Cause of bullying- Nature
Genetic predisposition or a brain abnormality (diminished frontal lobe)
Cause of bullying- Nurture
Stressful home life
When does bullying become associated with the Bystander Effect?
Around age 11, children begin to watch bullying happen out of fear for themselves instead of standing up for the bullied person