chapter 8: socioecinomical development in middle childhood Flashcards
acculturation
the process that immigrant families undergo to participate in and accept the new culture of a dominant society
what happens to a kid when they find out that they are getting a sibling
- are usually excited and distressed
- they enjoy playing with the baby, and caring for the baby
- they have withdrawl and regression because of less attention being placed on them
how do younger siblings relate to older siblings
- as they age they are more likely to talk to older siblings than parents
- they learn games and tasks from older siblings
- they are more likely to be popular and get good grades if their older siblings do
factors that affect sibling relationships
sex age how parents treat children how parents treat each other (if kids get along in childhood they usually will as adults)
in which ways are adopted kids more like their biological parents
temperment
mother-infant attachment
self-esteem
cognitive development
problems that adopted children are more prone to
problems adjusting to school
conduct dissorders
differences in the ways that parents treat first born children
- they have higher expectations
- they are more affectionare
- the are more punitive
differences in first born children compared to other siblings
- they have higher IQ scores
- are more likely to do post-secondary education
- are more willing to comply with parents’ and other adults’ request
differences in the ways that parents treat later-born children
- they have more realistic expectations
- are mroe relaxed in discipline
differences in later born children in comparison to other siblings
- less concerned with pleasing adults
- more popular with peers
- are more innovative
differences in only children
more sucess in school
-higher levels of: intelligence, leadership, autonomy, maturity
children of divorce have more problems with:
school achievement conduct adjustment self-concept parent-child relationships
after childhood, kids of divorce are more likely to:
- become teenage parents
- get divorced
- have lower life satisfaction
- become depressed
aspects of divorce that influence development
- loss of a role model, source of parental help, and emotional support, and supervisor
- economic hardship (this may increase stress and affect parental behaviour)
- parental conflict (distresses the kids)
factors in kids that make divorce harder on them
- if they are in childhood or adolescence (as opposed to preschool, or post secondary years)
- if they are more emotional
- if they interpret events negatively
- if they dont actively cope with problems brought on by divorce
children of divorce fare better when parents:
- explain why they are getting a divorce
- tell the kids what to expect
- let the kid know that they are loved
- remain involved with the kid
- dont criticize each other to the kids
blended family :
when there is a biological parent, a step parent, and children
when is it more difficult to adjust to a blended family
- if the kid is in adolescents
- if the kid is a girl
- when there are also step siblings
things that make adjusting to blended family easier
- if the stepfather is interested in the stepchildren, but doesnt intrude on their relationship with their mother
- mother doesnt let being with new spouce take away from her affection or time that she spends with her kids
- if everyone has realistic expectations
elements of friendship in: younger children, older elementary school, adolescence
younger children: mutually liking and playing together
older elementary school children: mutual liking and playing together, trust and assistance
adolescence: mutually liking and playing together, trust and assistance, and intimacy
friends are usually similar in:
age
gender
race
attitude towards school, recreation, drug use, plans for the future
what are the two types of people that have same sex friends?
really popular and socially skilled kids, who have both genders of friends
-and really unpopular people who are rejected by other same sex peers
what happens when kids have better friends?
- they have higher self-esteem
- less likely to become lonely and depressed
- act prosocially
- cope better with life stresses
- less likely to be bullied
- greater self worth as young adults