chapter 6: interacting and the work of play Flashcards
parenting styles: authoritarian parenting
parents show high levels of control and low levels of warmth
parenting styles: authoritative parenting
parents provide a balance of warmth and structure and are responsive to their children
parenting styles: indulgent-permissive parenting
parents are warm and caring but exert little control over their kids
parenting styles: indifferent-uninvolved parenting
neither warm nor controlling. they try to spend little time with their kids
which of the 4 parenting styles work best
most of the time its authoritative parenting that works best
-kids with these parents usually have higher grades, are more responsive and self reliant, and are friendlier
the result of authoritarian parenting
kids are usually: unhappy, have low self esteem, and are overly agressive
the result of permissive parenting
kids are usually: impulsive and have little self control
result of uninvolved parenting
these kids: do poorly in school, and are usually agressive
variations in parenting styles across cultures
- european north americans value raising kids that are happy and self-reliant
- asians place less value on individualism, and more on cooperation and collaboration
- latino culture emphasizes strong family ties and respecting the roles of family members, especially adults
variations in parenting that are related to lower SES
- parents are less educated
- usually are employed in a position where they have to take lots of orders from people
- are often raise their kids in places with higher crime rates
- they tend to be more authoritarian
parental behaviour: direct instruction
this is telling the kid how, when and why certain behaviours are important (this can help thekids understand peoples feelings, develop self control, and internalize values)
parental behaviour: modelling (and counterimitation)
occurs when kids learn appropriate behaviour by watching their parents engage in that behaviour
counterimitation: learning what should NOT be done by observing the behaviour (like when a sibling gets punished for doing something they wont be likely to do that)
parental behaviour: rienforcement and punishment
reinforcement: any action that increases the likelihood the action that it follows
punishment; any action that increases the likelihood of the action that it follows
parental behaviour: negative reinforcement trap
unwittingly reinforcing a behaviour you want to discourage
ways in which punishment can have negative consequences
- it may stop an undesired behaviour, but doesnt necessarily teach desired behaviours
- can make kids feel anxious, fearful, and resentful
what is physical punishment associated with? (6)
- increased agression
- mental health probs
- poor parent-child relationship
- delinquent and antisocial behaviour
- delayed cognitive development
- increased incidence of child abuse
3 ways that parental conflict affects the kids
- the kid may feel like the family is not stable or secure, which may make them feel anxious, fearful, or sad
- the ineffetive styles of interacting with the other parent may start to spill over into the relationship with the child
- the more time the parents spend fighting, the less they spend effectively parenting
stresses the child has about the parents
- if the parent becomes unemployed, or may become unemployed
- if parents are really stressed out and withdraw from the family, or become less accepting of the children
what are 2 charictaristics of the child that influence parental behaviour
- age
2. temperment and baheviour
child’s influence on parental behaviour: age
- the way that the parents show warmth and control changes
- the parents grant more autonomy, but also expect more responsible behaviour
child’s influence on parental behaviour: temperament and behaviour
-it is best if the parents and children have the same temperament and behaviour (if they are different less time is spent together, and the parent may see it as not wanting to spend time with them, rather than just not liking the activity_
child maltreatment: physical abuse
this is the likely or actual use of physical force to cause suffering or injury
child maltreatment: sexual abuse
this is: fondling exposure rape exploitation using sexually explicit language showing a kid porn involving a kid in porn
child maltreatment: emotional maltreatment
involves: ridicule rejection humiliation degradation
child maltreatment: neglect
failure to provide for the childs healthy development, or secure their physical safety