Chapter 6

Question 1

What are Weiss six provisions of a relationship?

Answer 1

belonging and a sense of reliable alliance, EMotional integration and stability, opportunity to talk about yourself, provision of physical support/reassurance of worth and value, opportunity to help others

Question 2

belonging and a sense of reliable alliance

Answer 2

To sense someone is “there for you”

Question 3

EMotional integration and stability

Answer 3

supporting each other and offering advice

Question 4

opportunity to talk about yourself

Answer 4

A sense of being known is what makes relationships rewarding

Question 5

opportunity to help others

Answer 5

we like to be there for others because when people look to you then they value your view of something

Question 6

provision of physical support/reassurance of worth and value

Answer 6

actions done for you and youdo for others

Question 7

social relationships

Answer 7

people that are interchangeable and perform certain functions

Question 8

personal relationships

Answer 8

friendships and family

Question 9

relational continuity constructional units

Answer 9

a means of recognizing and recording the fact that the relationship is still continuing even when the partners are not face-to-face and may be apart from one another

Question 10

prospective unit

Answer 10

provide recognition that an absence is about to begin

Question 11

introspective units

Answer 11

recognize that an absence is happening

Question 12

retrospective units

Answer 12

direct signals of the end of an abscense

Question 13

first filter

Answer 13

apperance

Question 14

second filter

Answer 14

behavior and NVC

Question 15

third filter

Answer 15

roles

Question 16

fourth filter

Answer 16

psychological similarity

Question 17

serial construction of meaning

Answer 17

ducks model that deals with how to people come to understand and appriciate one another through talk- commonality of experience, mutuality, equivelance of evaluation, sharing of meaning.

Question 18

commonality of experience

Answer 18

have the same experience but havent discussed it

Question 19

mutuality

Answer 19

to talk about having the same experience

Question 20

equivalence of evaluation

Answer 20

to have experienced the same event and felt the same way about it

Question 21

sharing of meaning

Answer 21

place the event in the same world of meaning relative to other events and experiences

Question 22

intrapsychic process

Answer 22

consider ending a relationship after reflecting on pros and cons

Question 23

dyadic process

Answer 23

confrontoing partner and openly discussing the problem

Question 24

social process

Answer 24

tell other people about issues in relationship seeking help or support

Question 25

grave dressing process

Answer 25

creating the story of why a relationship died and erecting a summary

Question 26

resurrection process

Answer 26

how to prepare for a new relationship after ending an old one

Question 27

chart on page 163

Answer 27

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Question 28

autonomy-connectedness

Answer 28

independent but connected

Question 29

openness-privacy

Answer 29

need privacy but honestly as well