chapter 3 (dates, cohabitating couples, marriage) Flashcards
romantic love
a view of love that is influenced by idealistic thoughts about partner selection, such as chivalry and a search for one’s soul partner.
complementary needs theory
robert winch proposed that in seeking a partner, people are typically drawn to someone whose needs are opposite and complementary to their own.
expressive exchange
exchange of emotional and sexual benefits.
instrumental exchange
exchange of practical and useful benefits, such as unpaid work or financial support.
social role theory
people will seek mates that best represent or personify the ideal characteristics of their gender (ex: masculine men and feminine women).
endogamy
marriage to a member of one’s own tribe or social group.
sexual double standard
application of different rules/standards of behaviour to men vs. women.
sexual scripts
attitudes and activities that a culture links to gender or that are typically expected of members of a particular gender when dating.
homogamy
the selection of a partner with similar social qualities, such as class, education level, religion, race, or ethnicity.
marriage gradient
systematic difference between partners such that men are typically older and of higher social or economic status than their female partners.
exogamy
marriage outside one’s own tribe or social group.
perfect partner
one’s theoretical ideal partner.