Chapter 14 Family Relationships Flashcards
Baumrinds 4 Parenting styles
Expressions of warmth
Strategies for discipline
Quality of communication
Expectations for maturity
Authoritative Style
- High warmth
- High level of communication to and from parent & child
- Age appropriate expectations for maturity
- Discipline strategies involve much discussion, firm but fair limits
- “the teacher”
Authoritarian Style
- Little warmth
- Communication is one way (Commands from parent)
- Very high expectations for maturity
- Strict, frequent discipline strategies
- “The Ruler”!
Indulgent-permesive Style
- High warmth; highly involved with their children’s life
- High amount of communication from child to parent
- Few to no expectations or demands for maturity
- Little no discipline
- “The Friend”
Indifferent-Uninvolved
- Provides little attention, little warmth present
- Little communication between parent & child
- Few to no expectations or demands…
- Low or no involvement in childs life, little discipline
- “Neglectful”
Outcomes of Authoritarian Style
Child is obedient and quiet but may also be rebellious
Outcomes of Authoritative Style
Children are self-controlled, socially competent, cooperative with highest overall competence
Outcomes of Indulgent Permessive
Children often fail to learn respect for others, tend to be immature, out of control
Outcomes of Indifferent uninvolved
Children have poor social skills, poor self control and demanding
Specific behaviors that parents use to influence their children include
- Direct Instruction: What when how and why (Authoritative)
What when and how (Authoritarian) - Besing Observed
- Feedback: reinforcement & punishment, rewards, taking something pleasurable to them
(Authoritative: punishment and reinforcement)
(Authoritarian: just punishment)
Negative reinforcement trap
Parents often unknowingly reinforce behaviors they want to prevent
ex:when parents ask can you set the table. child makes an excuse, then the parents ends up setting the table
Parental behavior for punishment
- administered directly after the undesired behavior occurs, not hours after
- an undesired behavior always leads to punishment, rather than usually or occasionally
- accompanied by an explanation of why the child was punished and how punishment can be avoided in the future(Authoritative)
Grandparents Roles
(seen once or twice a month)
- Influential: very close and very involved in their lives; frequently perform parental roles
- going to parent teach conferences
- helping them with homework
- discipling them
- Supportive: close and involved but do not take on parental roles
- take them to the park and such
-Detached: uninvolved
The family as a system- Bronfenbrenner
- Families form a system of interacting elements that mutually influence each other
- he saw the developing child embedded in a series of complex and interactive systems
Effects of Divorce on Children
- Divorce affects children’s conduct, school achievement, adjustment, self-concept, and relationships with parents;
- All children feel pain and loss and negative outcomes especially in the short term after a divorce
- Results differ as to the long term effect of divorce
- Dr. Wallerstein versus Dr. Hetherington