Chapter 14 Flashcards
Single adults
Advantages
And disadvantages
Tripled in # from 1970-2005
Advantages are freedom, opportunities
Common problems are forming untamable relationships with others, loneliness, and finding niche in a marriage oriented society
Cohabiting adults
People who are in a sexual relationship, not married , who live together
60% of people today 11% in the 1970
30% last less than a year
Reasons for adult Marriages
Some get married for personal fulfillment and some for martial stability
1st marriages are usually around age 28.7 in men and in women 26.5
Culture can play a big role in why some get married
Middle adulthood marriage
Mose express considerable satisfaction
Worst marriage already dissolved
Late adulthood marriages
Adjustments needed at retirement
Happiness is affected by each partners coping of aging
Divorced adults marriage
Increased for socioeconomic status Rates are higher for divorce if You marry young Have low education Low income Not religious Already have divorced parents Married bc you had a child Most divorce occur between 5-10years
After divorce in adulthood
Loneliness, diminished self esteem, anxiety about future
Financial issues
Problems with child (alienation)
Remarried adults
May only remarry bc of financial issues or for the child
Divorced more likely
More shared decisions
Adjustments with step parents
May bring old negative patterns to new relationship
Parenting
Birth control allows choosing when and how many children they have
More women have children later or not at all
Average age for first child is 25 years
Advantages of having children in 20’s
More physical energy
Fewer medical problems with pregnancy
Less likely to build up expectations for children
Advantages of children in 30’s
More time to consider life goals
Maturity, benefit or experience more competent parenting
Better established in careers, more income
Parents as managers
Provide opportunities, monitor, teach, independence and making competent decisions
Effective management produces best outcomes
Authoritarian parenting
Chinese parenting
Restrictive,punitive,firm limits and control
Can lead to u happy, anxious, children reluctant to initiate activity, weak common skills
Different in context of other cultures
Authoritative parenting style
Encourages independence with limits and controls
Show pleasure and support in response to constructive behavior
Expectations of maturity, independence, age-appropriate behavior
Children often cheerful, self-controlled,self reliant, achievement oriented
Friendly with peers, cooperate with adults, cope well with stress
Neglectful parenting
Uninvolved parents
Children sense other aspects of parents lives more important
Socially incompetent, poor self-control, low self esteem, immature, don’t handle independence well
Patterns of truancy and delinquency