Chapter 14 Flashcards
Directness Test:
Asking a partner directly about their feelings or intentions.
Endurance Test:
Testing a partner’s commitment by creating difficult situations to see if they stay.
Indirect Suggestions Test:
Hinting at something to gauge a partner’s reaction without direct confrontation.
Presenting the Relationship to Outsiders Test:
Observing how a partner reacts when the relationship is made public.
Separation Test:
Creating physical or emotional distance to see how a partner responds.
Third Party Test:
Using another person to gather information about a partner’s feelings or actions.
Triangle Test:
Introducing a third person to see if a partner becomes jealous or remains loyal.
Empty Apologies
Apologies that lack sincerity or do not lead to any change in behavior.
Internet Characteristics fostering Online Infidelity:
Anonymity, accessibility, and ease of communication that make online infidelity more likely.
Emotional vs Sexual Infidelity:
Emotional infidelity involves forming a deep emotional connection with someone other than a partner, while sexual infidelity involves physical acts of cheating.
Evaluations:
Negative judgments about a person’s worth or value.
Accusation:
Blaming someone for wrongdoing.
Directives:
Commands or orders that can be perceived as controlling.
Informative Statements:
Sharing information that may be hurtful.
Statement of Desire:
Expressing desires that exclude or hurt the partner.
Advising Statement:
Giving advice that may come off as critical.
Question:
Asking questions that imply criticism or doubt.
Threats:
Statements that imply harm or negative consequences.
Jokes:
Humorous remarks that can be hurtful.
Lies:
False statements intended to deceive.
Reactions to Hurtful Messages:
Responses can include anger, sadness, withdrawal, or confrontation.
Relationally Aggressive Categories:
Behaviors aimed at damaging someone’s social relationships or status.
Relational Aggression in College: Bad and Normal:
Examining how relational aggression manifests in college settings and distinguishing between harmful and typical behaviors.
Verbal Aggression
Use of words to cause harm, including insults, threats, and harsh criticism.
Physical Bullying:
Using physical force to intimidate or harm
Relational Bullying:
Damaging someone’s social relationships or reputation.
Verbal Bullying:
Using words to belittle, insult, or threaten.
Cyber-Bullying:
Using digital platforms to harass or intimidate.
Workplace Bullying Typology:
Different forms of bullying that occur in professional settings.
Communicating Anger:
Expressing anger in a healthy and constructive manner
Affirming Communicator Style:
Positive communication that validates and supports others.
Types of Deception:
Various forms of lying or misleading, such as white lies, exaggerations, and omissions.
Lies in Romantic Relationships:
Deceptive behaviors specifically within romantic contexts.
Domestic Violence or Intimate Partner Violence
Physical, emotional, or psychological abuse occurring within intimate relationships.