Chapter 11: attraction Flashcards
What do humans desire?
Humans have the desire to belong. When we feel supported by close intimate relationships we tend to be happier and healthier.
How to humans regulate behavior?
- Humans in all cultures use ostracism to regulate behavior.
How powerful is ostracism and what are its effects?
- Ostracism: (acts of excluding or ignoring)
- it is very powerful.
- More harmful than bullying.
- worse for younger people.
- ## can occur through cyber platforms as well.Results:
- higher rates of aggression
- anti social behavior
- decreased willingness to cooperate and obey rules
- More self destructive acts: binge drinking, eating , etc.
T/F Tylenol can treat the pain of being ostracized?
True.
How does proximity affect relationships?
We often like those who we are closest to.
ex: umpires are less likely to call strikes on players they stand by for longer periods of time. (catcher)
What are the two aspects of proximity that contribute to increased odds of likingness?
- ) Geographical nearness or proximity (e.g. Literally next door; the people at work I like the best have offices near me)
- ) Functional Distance: figuratively next door; there are frequent chances for interaction (who parks in the same parking lot, goes to the same gym, walks to class through the same hallways)
How are proximity and likeness related?
They correlate fairly closely.
- we are more likely to get into a relationship or like someone who are closer in proximity to.
What is more significant ?
Functional distance or geographical distance?
- what do these two things contribute to?
- functional distance, this is because repeated exposure and interaction with someone generally causes our infatuation may fix on almost anyone who has roughly similar characteristics and who reciprocates our affection.
What is environmental spoiling?
- Proximity and functional distance contribute to such much contact with an individual that we are able to get to know them better and figure our what we dislike about that person.
What does anticipatory liking lead to?
- Anticipatory liking leads to to increased odds that someone will be pleasant and compatible.
Describe the Mere exposure effect?
- Conducted by Zajonc.
- ## Flashing Michigan students random words of another language through out the semester and the words they saw more the students ranked as liking more.
- ## It is the tendency for novel stimuli to be more likeable after we are repeatedly exposed to them.EX:
- French students were asked to describe their least liked letter in the alphabet. The majority said capital W. This is because it is the least used letter in all of their language.
How is the mere exposure effect, effected when the individuals are unaware of the stimuli?
- it actually works better.
What does Zajonic say about our emotions?
Emotions are often more instantaneous than cognition.
What are the negatives associated with the mere exposure effect?
- We may express automatic and unconscious bias towards individuals that are unfamiliar, which can contribute to racial biases.
Good looks are considered to be an (what?)
Asset!
(T/F) attractiveness is a good indicator of how frequently someone dates?
- True.
- Attractive wives lead to (Happier or wasn’t an effect) of the marriage status to the husband.
- Attractive husband lead to (Happier or wasn’t an effect) of the marriage status to the wives.
- ) - Happier.
2. ) wasn’t an effect.
Couples that were friends prior to to dating care more or less about physical attraction than those that weren’t friends before dating?
- Less about physical attractiveness.