Chapter 1 Flashcards

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Definition of conflict (all 5 elements)

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Definitional element of conflict - definition of conflict (Do not answer with conflict styles, just vocabulary)
1. An Expressed Struggle - the communication that makes up the conflict
2. An Interdependence - choices that affect other people
3. Perceived Incompatible Goals - out of touch with needs
4. Perceived Scarce Resources - fighting over the same guy
5. Interference - person interferes with the desired action

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Creating a Supportive vs Defensive Climate (p. 25 in 9th Edition)

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  1. Evaluation use Description = Describe issue not the person
  2. Control use Problem Solving = Focus on problem not control
  3. Strategy use Spontaneity = No manipulating, just be in the moment
  4. Neutrality use Empathy = Don’t be a matter of fact, care
  5. Superiority use Equality = Don’t talk down, treat like equal
  6. Certainty use Provisionalism = Don’t be inflexible, be open
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Escalatory Spirals

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I do or say something bad, you escalate and then I escalate and it’s a destructive conflict style tool. Instead of solving the issue we just keep making it worse. Escalate out of control.

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