Ch. 9 Communication and the Therapeutic Relationship Flashcards
Professional Core Belief
Nurses need to communicate assertively and responsibly w/ clients and colleagues to demonstrate caring
Patients request
- -Understanding
- -Action
- -Information
- -Comfort
You may need to validate w/ them what they are requesting if it is not clear
Responsible Communication
willing to answer for ones own conduct instead of blaming situations or other people
Caring Communication
focusing on the relationship w/ the client instead of the procedure you are doing. Having meaningful connections w/ clients. Creating hope and trust
Assertive Communication
being clear about your needs and respectful in language and behavior, striving for win-win situations. This is in contrast to passive or aggressive.
Assertive Communication: Passive
does not state needs, lets others make decisions and choices, frustrating to others
Assertive Communication: Aggressive
wants to win at all costs, defeat others, makes choices for others
Assertion
3 criteria for success in assertiveness:
–doing it when there is adequate time, respectfully phrasing your needs, and doing it when the person is receptive to discussion
To improve your assertiveness:
- Determine what rights you are giving up
- Identify what irrational belief you have
- Use DESC
- -Describe situation
- -Express what you think and feel
- -Specify your request
- -State consequences
Therapeutic Use of Self
Application of nurse’s own personality and characteristics w/in the interaction to facilitate hearing
Open-ended process, continues to develop throughout life as we learn new ways to relate to others
Basic concept involves understanding of self and others
Nurse-Patient Relationship
Pre-orientation phase
-get report
Orientation phase
- First meeting
- Confidentiality
- Testing the relationship
- Ends when patient begins identifying problems
Working phase
- Identification of problems
- Problem solving
Resolution phase
- Problems resolve
- Relationship ends
Therapeutic impasses are usually in what phase?
Working phase
Therapeutic Impasses: Transference
Unconscious response of client
Client: inappropriate intensity of feelings: hostility, anger, love, dependence
Nurse: confront distortions of reality gently, facilitate client awareness
Therapeutic Impasses: Countertransference
Inappropriate intensity of nurse’s feelings
Nurse must increase self-awareness and access supervision to assist in dealing w/ client more effectively
Resistance - Testing Behaviors
Normal response to anxiety-provoking thoughts and feelings - afraid of self-exploration
Client: avoidance, acting out, forgetting, silence, lateness
Nurse: make observations, support client to deal w/ anxiety
Self-Awareness
The process of understanding one’s own beliefs, thoughts, motivations, biases, and limitations, and recognizing how they affect others
The development of self-awareness requires a willingness to be introspective
Includes:
Biologic, Psychological, and Social
Self-Awareness: Biologic
- Gender, age, body weight, height, and other physical characteristics
- Genetic makeup, chronic illness, or physical disability
Self-Awareness: Psychological
- Psychological makeup
2. Traumatic experiences