Ch. 7: Socioemotional Development in Middle Childhood Flashcards
Authoritarian Parenting
Authoritative Parenting
Permissive Parenting
Uninvolved Parenting
Authoritarian: combines high control with little warmth
Authoritative: combines a fair degree of parental control with being warm and responsive to children
Permissive Parenting: offers warmth and caring but little parental control
Uninvolved Parenting: provides neither warmth nor control
Direct Instruction
Telling a child what to do, when and why
Counterimitation
Through observation, learning what should NOT be done
Negative Reinforcement Trap
unintentionally reinforcing the behavior you want to cease. Ask child to do chores, child whines, parent says they don’t have to do chores to get the whining to stop. Child learns that whining gets them out of chores
Ego Resilience
person’s ability to respond adaptively and resourcefully to new situations
Co-rumination
friends spend time together discussing each other’s problems
Dominance Heirarchy
Children/adolescent social groups tend to have a leader to whom all other members of the group defer
Instrumental Aggression
A Child uses aggression to achieve an explicit goal
Hostile Aggression
unprovoked and seems to have its sole goal to intimidate, harass, or humiliate another child
Relational Aggression
Children try to hurt others by undermining their social relationships
Selman’s Five Stages of Perspective Taking (USSTS)
Undifferentiated (3-6): children know that self and others can have different thoughts and feelings but often confuse the two
Social-informational (4-9): children know that perspectives differ because people have access to different information
Self-reflective (7-12): children can step into another person’s shoes and view themselves as others do; they know others can do the same
Third-person (10-15): children can step outside the immediate situation to see how they and another person are viewed by a third person
Societal (14+): Adolescents realize that a third-person perspective is influenced by broader personal, social, and cultural contexts
Recursive Thinking
Thoughts that focus on what another person is thinking