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Attraction, Love and Communication Flashcards

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Attraction:

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Immediate and positive emotional and/or behavioural response to someone

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components of attraction (2).

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  1. affective (emotional)
    “I like this person”
  2. behavioural
    “I would like to meet this person”, “I want to approach this person”
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Sexual Selection theory

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Evolution of adaptive traits to increase reproductive advantage -> Suggests our mating behaviour in humans reflects our evolved traits that have been selected for

not for survival – for MATING

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Parental Investment Theory

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Women have greater minimal obligatory investment when having children

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Sexual Strategies Theory

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Men and women face different adaptive problems in reproduction

MEN:
- Determining which women are able to reproduce
- Minimize commitment, shorter term relationship, more likely to practice extramarital sex
- Need to spread seed everywhere

WOMEN:
- Committed partner, invest resources, identify men who can care for children
- Financial status, ability and willingness to provide assistance

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MOST IMPORTANT QUALITIES FOR ATTRACTIVENESS:

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  1. agreeableness
  2. physical attractiveness
  3. status
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facial symmetry theories

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  1. indicator of genetic fitness (indicator of genetic superiority)
  2. perceptual bias (symmetrical things = easier to process)
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Facial Sexual Dimorphism

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Theory: preference for traits that best exhibit sexual maturation and reproductive fitness

Women – big eyes, small nose, small chin, full lips and prominent cheekbones, narrow cheeks, broad smile

Men – strong jaws and broad foreheads, slightly more feminized and baby faced men are more attractive too

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  • When asked to rate faces, people rate computer averaged faces as more attractive than others
  • Why?
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evolutionary theory -> abnormal = genetic mutations

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Canadian teenagers

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69% of girls would like to lose weight and 54% of boys would like to gain weight

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Dutton & Aron (1974) study effect

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misattribution of arousal

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Swami et al. (2010) study

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Three conditions:(1) positive personality; (2)
negative personality; (3) no information -> male Ps judging female Ps

  • When given positive information = more accepting of physical appearance
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Germine et al. (2015)

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  • Twin study
    • Compared identical/fraternal on facial attractiveness ratings

FINDINGS: genetically identical twins were not closer in ratings suggesting perceptions of physical attractiveness are not due to genes (nature), but rather the environment (nurture) -> Personality preferences, own characteristics, SES environment, learning

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characteristics of companionate love

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Intelligence, kindness, understanding

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sexual partner important attributes

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W: attractive, healthy, attentive
M: attractive, healthy, personality

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marriage partner important attributes

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W: trustworthy, sensitive, personality
M: personality,trustyworthy, attractive

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Propinquity effect

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our tendency to like people whose paths cross more often with our own (Expanded by online dating increasing opportunity for attraction)

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Mere-exposure

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  • the more we are exposed to something, the more we are attracted to them
    • EXCEPTIONS: negative first impression
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Assortative Mating

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the tendency to choose a partner who is similar to oneself on one or more characteristics

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Homophily

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tendency to have contact with people equal in social status

  • greatest = race/ethnicity, followed by education and age.
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homogamy

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when someone marries someone with whom they share important characteristics

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the most consistent similarity for people in relationships

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Ethnicity -> 34% say they prefer same ethnic group, 93% relationships = same ethnic group

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mixed unions

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at least one person in visible minority group together

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Matching phenomenon

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We tend to choose partners who match us in quality
- Balance in rewards and costs
- “mate value”
- Self-esteem plays a role
- Physical attraction: higher SES and education

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Reciprocal liking
We like those who like us and we dislike those who dislike us
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strongest predictor of sexual satisfaction
—Open communication and connection in INTIMACY
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Differentiates romantic FROM PLATONIC
PASSION
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emotional component
intimacy stable or increases
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motivational component
passion decrease over time as familiarity and commitment increases
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cognitive component
Decision or commitment ( 2 aspects) : - short (decision one loves the other) - long (commitment to maintain relationship )
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evidence for sternberg
cross-cultural study confirmed cultural universality of theory
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Love as a Story
sternberg Contains characters, a plot, and a theme People tend to be unhappy and leave relationships when their relationship does not match the story they have in their head
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Predictors of Long Term Relationship Satisfaction
💡 Many fall under domain of communication - Feeling loved/appreciated - Emotional closeness - Intimacy and sharing - Sexual satisfaction (quantity, type, context, etc.) - Self-disclosure - Related to intimacy - Ability to resolve conflict - Skilled communication (relationship/sex) - Mindfulness (being present, identifying and communicating emotions)
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stable communication
5x as many + as - interactions
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The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse (Gottman)
1. Criticism - Attacking partner’s character 2. Contempt - Disgust/anger - Intentional insults 3. Defensiveness - Denying responsibility, making complaints 4. Stonewalling - Withdrawal or silence
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Factors in growth of online dating:
1. Growing proportion of population = single 2. career & time = more efficient ways of looking 3. single people are highly mobile 4. workplace romance is less acceptable
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Advantages and Disadvantages of Online Dating
1. forces you to focus on person’s interests and values 2. deception = less chance of a second date /: 3. modern dating has introduced a “rejection mindset” where people are less satisfied with any given person they meet through online dating
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The basis of romance
testosterone, dopamine, oxytocin, and vasopressin
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3 classes of influence on relationship success:
1. personal characteristics 2. individual change 3. uncontrollable external events (unemployment, infertility, chronic illness, etc.)
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Reinforcement theory
- we like people who are nice to us and dislike people who are mean to us - people prefer to interact with people who are similar because it is rewarding
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Rebuffed
shot down
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3 Factors in Maintaining Relationships:
1. relationship satisfaction 2. quality of alternative 3. investment
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Attachment Theory of Love
2 dimensions: anxiety and avoidance - based on our perceptions of ourselves and on our expectations of how others will respond to us
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Secure attachment
have a sense of their own lovability and the expectation that other people are generally accepting and responsive
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Preoccupied
sense of their own unlovability but a positive evaluation of other people. Try to achieve self-acceptance by gaining the acceptance of people they value. most commonly jealous
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Fearful
have a negative expectation of both themselves and other people. - tend to avoid relationships
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Dismissing
- feel themselves to be worthy of love but have negative views of other people. - These people may protect themselves against disappointment by avoiding close relationships and maintaining a sense of independence
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2 types of jealousy
(can occur together or separate): 1. Emotional - when one person believes or knows that the partner is emotionally attached to or in love with another 2. Sexual - when the person believes or knows that the partner wants to engage in or has engaged in sexual intimacy with another
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Situations activating jealousy:
1. occurs when there is a threat to self-esteem 2. threat to relationship
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Stages of jealousy:
1. cognitive - we make an initial appraisal of the situation and find that there is a threat to our self-esteem or to the relationship 2. emotional reaction 1. rapid stress response, the “jealous flash (physiological component) 2. reappraisal stage, we may shift from seeing the situation as a threat to seeing it as a challenge 3. feelings of moodiness
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4 aspects of romantic scripts:
1. connection 2. passion 3. destiny 4. instant
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Passionate love (3 components)
💡 state of intense longing for union with another person and of intense physiological arousal - overwhelming, obsessive, and all consuming 3 components: 1. cognitive - preoccupation and idealization 2. emotional - physiological arousal, sexual attraction, desire 3. behavioural - physical closeness, taking care of the other
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Two-Component Theory of Love
passionate love occurs when two conditions exist simultaneously: 1. the person is in a state of intense physiological arousal 2. the situation is such that the person applies a particular label—love—to the sensations being experienced
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myotonia
muscular tension
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4 destructive patterns of interaction:
1. criticism 2. contempt - intentionally insulting or orally abusing 3. defensiveness 4. withdrawal
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Magic ratio
5x positive than negative (verbal and nonverbal)

PSYC 350 - Midterm 2 (6 decks)

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