Active Parenthood Exam 1 Flashcards
Developmental Characteristics
- Rapid Cycling through Moods: Unpredictable and Challenging Behavior
- Continuing Identity Exploration: Experimentation with personality, peers and appearance
- Beginning Concern with Others’ Thoughts: General defensiveness due to strong feelings of self consciousness
- Developing Capacity for Critical Analysis: Constant analysis and critique of family members
Today’s Newer Stressors
- To be sexually active at a younger age
- STD’s and STI’s
- Sexual Harassment and Rape issues
- Increased pressure to try drugs and alcohol at younger ages
- Greater risk of being a victim of a violent crime
- Greater amount of single parents and step-families
- Greater pressure towards gang involvement
- More families in which both parents work outside of the home
- Increased exposure to mass media and advertising
- Greater dangers among the internet
The Purpose of Parenting
To PROTECT and PREPARE children and teens to SURVIVE and THRIVE in the kind of society in which they will live.
Qualities of a Democracy
- Courage
- Responsibility
- Cooperation
- Self-Esteem
- Desire to Learn
- Problem solving skills
- Decision making skills
- Technological ability
The Top 4 Qualities to Instill
- Courage
- Responsibility
- Cooperation
- Self-Esteem
Workplace Skills for the 21st Century
Leadership, Negotiation and Teamwork, High Self-Esteem for goal setting and motivation, Creative thinking and problem-solving abilities, Communication skills, Reading, Writing, Math and a general ability to learn
3 Styles of Parenting
Autocratic (dictator, authoritarian, limits without freedom), Permissive (freedom without limits, laissez faire) and Democratic (Authoritative, freedom with expanding limits)
Piaget’s Stages
Sensorimotor
Preoperational
Concrete Operational
Formal Operational
Sensorimotor
- Toddler’s focus on their 5 senses
- Object Permanence: The ability to understand that objects exist even when they can’t be seen.
- Connected with separation anxiety
Preoperational
- Symbolic Representation: The child learns letters and numbers to represent vocabulary
- Largest vocabulary increase occurs from ages 30-36 months of age; 75% of adult vocabulary is obtained by age 5
- Egocentrism: The ability to understand that a child may feel differently than another person.
- Schema: a method of thinking
- Assimilation & Accommodation
Concrete Operational
- The child can understand what they have experienced within their own world.
- Centration: (aka. Conservation) : The ability to understand 3-dimensionality in regards to size and shape
- Reversibility: The ability to understand positive and negative, and the absence of value
Formal Operational
- The ability to think abstractly and hypothesize
Problem Ownership
Who owns the problem?
- Whom is the problem directly affecting?
- Who is raising the issue or making the complaint?
- Whose goals are being blocked?
- Does the problem involve health, safety, family rules, or values? If so then the problem belongs to the parent.
- Is the problem within reasonable limits for your child’s age?
Parent Owned Problem
- Provide discipline
Child Owned Problem
- Provide support