Week Fifteen Flashcards
Actual Loss
Can be recognized by others
Loss
An actual or potential situation in which something that is valued is changed or is no longer available or is gone
Grief
The total response to the emotional experience related to loss. Manifested in thoughts, feelings, & behaviors.
Bereavement
The subjective response experienced by surviving loved ones after the death of someone they have shared a significant relationship with
Mourning
The behavioral process through which grief is eventually resolved of altered. It is often influenced by culture, spiritual beliefs, and customs.
Perceived Loss
Experienced by one person but cannot be verified by others
Anticipatory Loss
Experienced before the loss actually occurs
Sources of Loss
loss of aspect of self, loss of external objects, separation from familiar environment, loss of loved ones
Losses that may be experienced by individuals with chronic illnesses
loss of: personal identity, body image and self esteem, feelings on indestructibility, role function and/or performance, independence, privacy, and control over situation, mobility
Factors that affect the loss reactions
age, meaning of the loss/significance of the loss, culture, spiritual beliefs, gender, socioeconomic status, support system, cause of loss or death
Loss of Aspect of Self
body part, physiologic function, mastectomy, psychologic attribute
Loss of External Objects
inanimate or animate objects
Separation from Familiar Environment
environment and people
Loss of loved ones
loss or change of a loved one
Meaning of the loss/significance of the loss
carefully assess this without subjectively ascribing your own values that of the patient as you may incorrectly assume that a specific loss either is or is not traumatic
Culture (Factors that affect loss reaction)
How grief is expressed. customs associated with grieving
Spiritual beliefs
nurses should gain knowledge of the specific cultural and religious beliefs of the patient and help the patient deal with loss in a manner that is appropriate with their cultural and religious beliefs and practices
Socioeconomic Status
A person who is confronted with both severe loss and economic hardship may not be able to cope with either
Support System
The social support that is available from family, friends, coworkers, and former institutions.
What are some institutions that help with grief?
grief camps, churches, hospice
Cause of loss or death (factors)
individual and societal views of the death. Clean VS repulsive death that is beyond the control of others VS a preventable death
Assessing Loss and Grief
nursing history, assessment of personal coping resources, physical assessment, state of awareness
Assessing the state of awareness
The state of awareness shared by the dying person and the family affects the nurse’s ability to communicate freely with the patient and other healthcare team members to assist in the grieving process
Closed Awareness
The patient is unaware of the impending death. The family may lack full understanding and believe the patient will recover. PCP may believe it is best not to communicate diagnosis or prognosis. RN is then confronted with an ethical dilemma.
Mutual Pretense
The patient, family and healthcare team know that the illness is terminal but not not talk about it and make an effort not to raise the subject. The patient refrains from discussion of death to protect the family from distress. May sense discomfort on the part of the health care works. Permits the patient a degree of privacy and dignity but also places a burden on the patient.
Open Awareness
The patient and others know about the impending death and feel comfortable talking about it even thought it is difficult. It provides the patient an opportunity to finalize affairs - may even plan funeral arrangements. Not everyone can cope with and embrace open awareness.
Subjective Assessment
of the patient’s perception of the loss, of those factors that influence the patient’s loss and grief responses, nursing history, personal coping resources
Personal Coping Resources
spiritual and/or cultural practice, whom can you turn to for support, what kind of help do you think you will need, who can help, are there organizations that may help, physical symptoms, what are you doing to help you deal with the loss
A decrease in peristalsis is evident by
Hypoactive bowel sounds
Physiologic Changes (Stress Response)
dilated pupils, increase HR, increase R, SOB, dry mouth, muscle tension, diaphoresis, pallor, decrease urine output, decrease peristalsis, increase blood glucose
Psychologic changes of loss
crying, tearful, change in appetite, sleep disturbance, difficulty concentration, verbalization about the loss
Other things that might be seen during a loss
denial, guilt, anger, fear, crying, despair, hallucinations, delusions, inability to concentrate, feeling of worthlessness, thoughts of suicide
George Engel
Local man. Developed Engel’s 6 stages of grieving with corresponding behavioral responses
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
Has 5 stages of grieving and associated behavioral responses to each stage
Kubler-Ross Stages
Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Acceptance
Engel Stages
Shock/Disbelief, Developing Awareness, Restitution, Resolving the Loss, Idealization Outcome
Denial Kubler
refuses to believe loss happened, unready to deal with practical problems
Anger Kubler
Client or family may be angry at matters that normally wouldn’t bother them
Bargaining Kubler
Seeks to avoid loss, may express feelings of guilt or fear of punishment for past sins
Depression Kubler
grieves over what happened, may talk freely or withdraw
Acceptance
comes to terms with loss, may have decreased interest in surroundings and support person, may wish to begin making plans
Shock/Disbelief Engel
refusal to accept loss, stunned feelings, may assume artificial cheeriness, intellectual acceptance but emotional denial
Developing Awareness Engel
Reality of loss begins to penetrate, anger, crying and self-blame
Restitution Engel
Rituals of mourning
Resolving the Loss Engel
attempts to deal with painful void, unable to accept new love to replace lost person, may feel guilty
Idealization Engel
unconsciously internalizes admired qualities of deceased, reminders of the deceased evoke fewer sad feelings, reinvests feelings in others
Outcomes Engel
behavior influenced by several factors: importance of lost object, degree of dependence on relationship, degree of ambivalence toward deceased, number and nature of other relationships, number and nature of previous grief experiences
Define Grieving
A normal, complex process that includes emotional, physical, spiritual, social, and intellectual responses and behaviors by which individuals, families, and communities incorporate a loss into their daily lives.
Define Complicated Grieving
A disorder that occurs after the death of a significant other in which the experience of distress is accompanying bereavement fails to follow normative expectations and manifests in functional impairment
Complicated Greif two forms
unresolved or inhibited
Unresolved Complicated Grief
Some factor interferes with the progression of grief
Inhibited Complicated Grief
Normal symptoms of grief are suppressed
When is “normal” grief considered complicated grief
1 year after the loss
Normal findings of grief if up to year post loss
excessive/persistent expression of affect, inability to experience joy, clinical sx of depression, inability to form new relationships, inability to speak about the deceased without intense emotion, hearing or seeing the deceased, feelings of emptiness or meaninglessness
Abnormal findings if present past one year
leaves deceased’s room/belongings in tact, avoids visiting grave or attending memorial service, becomes recurrently symptomatic on the anniversary of loss or during holidays, develops persistent guilt and decreased self esteem, after a prolonged period continues to search for lost person, may consider suicide as an attempt to reunite, a relative minor event can trigger symptoms of grief, reported physical sx similar to those the deceased experienced before dying, relationships with friends and family worsen after the death
Factors that contribute to unresolved grief
ambivalence toward the deceased, perceived need to be brave and in control, fear of losing control in front of others, multiple losses, extremely high emotional value invested in the deceased, failure to grieve helps the survivor avoid the reality of the loss, uncertainty about the loss, lack of support systems
Ambivalence
love/hate feelings
Grieving r/t
anticipatory loss of significant object (possession, job, status, home, parts and processes of the body), anticipatory loss of significant other, death of a significant other, loss of a significant object (possession, job, status, home, parts and processes of the body)
Grief Defining Characteristics
alteration in activity level, alterations in immune function, alterations in sleep patterns, alterations in dream patterns, alterations in neuroendocrine function, anger, blame, detachment, despair, disorganization, experiencing relief, maintaining connection to the deceased, making meaning of the loss, pain, panic behavior, personal growth, psychological distress, suffering