Week 9 - Bonding with Caregiver Flashcards
What Contributes to Bonding Between Children and Caregivers?
- Cuteness
• Smiling
• Clinging
• Contingent responding (cycle of response)
• Social referencing
• Look to others to see how to react
• Joint attention/gaze following
• Looking between caregiver and object
• Caregiver and child both focusing on same object
Why Do Infants form Bonds with their Caregivers? (psychoanalytic perspective)
- Mother-child bond is critical
• Breastfeeding is primary source of oral gratification
Why Do Infants form Bonds with their Caregivers? (behaviourist perspective)
- Babies have physical drives like thirst and hunger
• When caregivers respond to these drives, the child associates the caregiver with positive reinforcement
• Biological drives guide attachment
Harry Harlow cloth/wire monkey study
Infant monkeys placed in a cage with a “wire” mother and a “cloth” mother
- Half of the monkeys fed by the wire mother
• Half the monkeys fed by the cloth mother
Results: monkeys spent more time with cloth monkey no matter the group –> caregiver provides sense of security
bonding in infants
Beginning at around 6 months of age, human infants have bonds with specific caregivers
• At around 8 months of age, they begin to show separation distress
What is Attachment?
bond between child and caregiver
Function:
• Infants: safety
• Parents: passing on genes
four stages of attachment
- Preattachment (birth to 6 weeks)
- Attachment in the making (6 weeks to 6-8 months)
- Clear-cut attachment (until 18 months – 2 years)
- Reciprocal relationships (2+ years)
Dependency
reliance on another person for basic physiological needs
Secure attachment
Child can explore the world knowing that the caregiver will be there for them
Use parents as a secure base:
• Explore when with caregiver
• May or may no cry when separated, but cry because caregiver is absent and prefer caregiver to the stranger
• Seek contact when parent returns and reduces crying
Insecure attachment
Balance between exploration and attachment is impaired
Different types
Avoidant attachment
Baby does not appropriately rely on the caregiver
• Explore when with caregiver
• Not distressed when caregiver leaves
• Responds to stranger in same way as caregiver
• On reunion, avoids or is slow to greet caregiver
• Often fail to cling when picked up
Resistant attachment
Diminished exploration because of preoccupation with
the caregiver
• Before separation, infant seeks closeness to caregiver and fails to explore
• Become extremely distressed when caregiver leaves
• On reunion, infant is both clingy and angry
• Cannot be comforted easily
Disorganized attachment
Behavior is confusing and contradictory
Seem to both want caregiver and be afraid of them
• Represents greatest insecurity
• Confusion at reunion with caregiver
• Contradictory behaviors (e.g., looking away while parent is holding them)
• Dazed facial expressions
Stability of Attachment over Time
In theory, attachment should remain stable over time
• Data are inconsistent
• Attachment may change because of changes in family circumstances
• Divorce
• Birth of a sibling
What Predicts the Quality of Attachment?
- Parenting
- Genes
- Child-specific factors
Parenting and Attachment
Parental sensitivity is associated with more secure attachment • Maternal well-being • Depression • Stress in the family directly affects attachment • Economic disadvantage • Marital conflict • Domestic violence • Alcohol and drug use