Week 13 - Parenting & Siblings Flashcards

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Research on parenting limitations

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  • WEIRD samples
  • Moms
  • Heterosexual couples
  • Biological families
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Authoritative Parenting

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  • High control and high warmth
  • Set clear standards and limits
  • Allow autonomy
  • Attentive and responsive
  • Respect and consider child’s perspective
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Authoritative Parenting effect on child

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  • Competent, self-assured, and well liked by peers
  • Better control
  • Low in antisocial behavior
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Authoritarian Parenting

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  • High control and low warmth
  • Non-responsive to children’s needs and interests
  • Enforce their own demands
  • Oriented towards obedience and authority
  • Expect compliance without questions or explanations
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Authoritarian Parenting effect on child

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  • Low in social and academic competence
  • Unhappy and withdrawn
  • Boys are more hostile
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Permissive Parenting

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  • High in warmth and low in control
  • Responsiveness
  • Do not require child’s self-regulation or appropriate/mature behavior
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Permissive Parenting effect on child

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  • Impulsive
  • Lacking in self-control
  • Lower in school achievement
  • Adolescents
    * More school misconduct and drug use
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Uninvolved Parenting

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  • Low on warmth and low on control
  • Do monitor the child’s behavior
  • Do not interact much with the child
  • Not supportive, may be rejecting or neglectful
  • Focus on their own needs
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Uninvolved Parenting effect on child

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• Insecure attachment
• Poor peer relationships
• Adolescents:
• Antisocial behavior, poor self-regulation, internalizing
problems, substance abuse, risky sexual behavior, low
academic and social competence

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Positive Parent Behaviors

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Warmth & Responsiveness

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Negative Parent Behaviors

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  • Control
  • Coercion
  • Negative emotionality
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Parental responsiveness and development

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  • associated with improved cognitive and social development

- Intervention study provides evidence of a causal link

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Affectivity and parenting

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  • Negative affectivity is associated with more negative parenting
  • Positive affectivity is associated with more positive parenting
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Parenting and Children’s Behavior: Evoked Effects

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  • Harsh parenting
  • Control, coercion, displays of negative affect
  • Harsh parenting is linked to:
  • Greater negativity in young children
  • Greater antisocial behavior including aggression and rule breaking in older children
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Coercive cycle in harsh parenting

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Coercive cycles develop in which harsh parenting leads to more negativity and aggression by child, which then increases harsh parenting

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Sibling Relationships as a Unique Developmental Context

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(1) Characterized by both reciprocal and complementary interactions
• Reciprocal interactions: characterized by equal and returned exchanges
• Complementary interactions: characterized by unequal distributions of power and knowledge
• Siblings engage in both
• Similar in age
• Different in age

(2) Involuntary
Young siblings typically share living space and cannot withdraw from each other
Throughout life, have common family relationships that will bind them together

(3) Lifelong
For many of us, the longest relationship you have will be with a sibling

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Sibling Conflict

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Relationships high in conflict/hostility are characterized by:
       • Arguing
       • Fighting
       • Aggression
       • Coercion
       • Negative affect
  • Observational studies have shown that preschool siblings are in conflict once every 10 minutes
    • Adolescents perceive that they have more conflicts with siblings than with anybody else
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What do siblings fight about?

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  • In childhood: physical harm, psychological harm, fairness
  • In adolescence: fairness and inequality
  • Sister-sister pairs: conflicts in the personal domain were as common as fairness and inequality
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What emotions are involved in sibling conflict?

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Anger

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Types of harm in transgressions b/w siblings/friends

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Offensive behavior
Physical harm
Property-related harm
Relationship-based harm
Honesty/insensitivity
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Reasons for harm in transgressions b/w siblings/friends

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Unintentional
Benevolent
Emotional/impulsive
Provocation
Extenuating circumstances
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Ruthlessness in transgressions b/w siblings/friends

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  • Disregard for victim’s feelings by deliberately engaging in action clearly understood to be harmful
  • Using harmful means when the goal could be achieved another way
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Harm against friends

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  • Harm against friends was relationship-oriented or related to honesty/insensitivity
    • Harm against friends described as being due to benevolent reasons and extenuating circumstances more than was harm against siblings
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Harm against siblings

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• Harm against siblings was offensive and property oriented
• Harm against siblings described as being due to emotional/impulsive reasons or being provoked
• Harm against siblings was more likely than harm against
friends to be ruthless and described as typical of the relationship
• Participants were more likely to invoke moral concerns in the sibling context

1) Frequent
2) Intense
3) Affectively charged
4) More destructive than conflict with friends

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Aggression by Siblings

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Sibling aggression is so common, it is viewed as normative, and not of clinical concern
• DSM-5 criteria for oppositional defiant disorder state that if the symptoms – including vindictiveness and spitefulness – are only present in interaction with siblings, the diagnosis should not be given
But, there is mounting evidence that sibling aggression can be harmful
• Consequences for victims
• Consequences for aggressors

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Effects of victimization by siblings

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  • Compared to those who reported no victimization by siblings, youth who reported frequent victimization by a sibling reported:
  • Greater anxiety and depression at 18-years-of-age
  • Engaging in greater self-harm behaviors at 18-years-of-age
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Sibling Warmth

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Warm relationships are characterized by:
• Intimacy
• Affection
• Support 
• Companionship
  • Greater sibling warmth is prospectively associated with better functioning
    • For example, increased sibling intimacy is linked to decreased depressive symptoms over time
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Sibling Warmth and Sibling Conflict

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Children in harmonious sibling relationships reported the best overall adjustment
• Least anxiety/depression and aggressive behavior problems
• Highest competence
Children in the hostile sibling relationships reported the poorest overall adjustment
• More aggressive and less self-perceived competence than children in the affectively intense relationship
• Warmth may be protective

  • Brother-brother and older brother-younger sister pairs more likely to be conflictual
  • Sister-sister pairs more likely to be harmonious
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Why Would We Want to Improve Sibling Relationships?

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(1) Benefits for the children
• Better relationship with sibling
• Opportunity to learn important skills
• Conflict resolution
• Perspective taking
(2) Benefits for the family
• Sibling conflict exerts a negative impact on family climate
• Many parents are distressed by fighting between their children
(3) Feasibility
• Non-stigmatizing
• Lots of opportunities to practice
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Helping Children Learn to Resolve their Own Conflicts

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  • Teach parents to mediate their conflicts
  • Help children arrive at their own resolution
  • To do this:
  • Set ground rules
  • Identify the conflict issue
  • Foster mutual understanding and build empathy
  • Participants propose, assess, and adopt resolutions
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Decreasing Conflict and Increasing

Warmth in Sibling Relationships

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  • Goal for many parents will be to decrease fighting and aggression between siblings
  • Teaching parents how to provide consequences for aggressive behavior and negative conflict tactics will reduce those behaviors
  • However, decreasing aggression will not necessarily translate into an increase warmth