Week 4 Flashcards
Self enhancement is about trying to feel good about ourselves, it can result in ____ ____ which makes it easier to get up in the morning.
Self enhancement is about trying to feel good about ourselves, it can result in unrealistic optimism which makes it easier to get up in the morning.
Self enhancement includes five impression management strategies, what are they?
Downward social comparison
Self serving bias
BIRGing
CORFing
Self-handicapping
Self serving bias
We attribute successes to internal causes and failures to external causes.
BIRGing
Basking In Reflected Glory
We exaggerate our closeness with successful people.
CORFing
Cutting Off Reflected Failure
Tendency to dissociate ourselves with others who fail.
Self-handicapping
We are afraid to look bad so we use two strategies
1) We set up excuses for bad behaviour
2) We sabotage in advance
The Self Compassion Model
Perspective: Seeing our suffering in context
Shared Humanity: We all suffer at times
Being One’s Own Best Friend: Kind, supporting, and caring
Using Self-Compassion to Thrive
Starts with self awareness, we need to reflect and change expectation for self. Then compassion, forgiving ourselves. Then self care.
Self Acceptance Narrative
This is what happened This is what I did to survive it This has been the cost This is what I learned This is how I respond to life now
Benefits of Stress
Satisfy need for change and stimulation
Promote personal growth or self-improvement
Inoculation
Stress
Any circumstance in our life that has the potential to threaten our well being.
Mediators of stress
Perceived control
Self-efficacy
Negative stress occurs when we perceive
an inability to cope with stress.
Positive stress occurs when we perceive
an ability to cope with stress.
Primary appraisal of stress
Appraising whether an event or situation is relevant and/or threatening to us