Verbal & Nonverbal Flashcards
Words have the power to…
Create perception
Influence thoughts
Affect & reflect culture
Affect quality of interpersonal relationships
Words are…
Symbols Denotative & Connotative Concrete and/or Abstract Arbitrary Culture bound
Bypassing
A term used to describe how one word can have multiple meanings. This can create confusion and communication errors
Allness
Refers to over generalized meaning given to a word, phrase or situation
Lack of Precision in Words
Contributes to miscommunication and gives uncertain meaning
Indexing
to acknowledge the uniqueness of situations and/or individuals
Static evaluation
Failure to recognize change and having rigid meanings/categories
Polarization
Extreme meaning. Good or bad
Biased language
Insensitivity towards others. Sexist, racist, biased, hate-speech
Establishing a supportive relationship
Describe own feelings, avoid evaluation behaviours of others. Seek to solve problems rather than control others. Empathize, be genuine, be flexible, be an equal(don’t act superior)
A good apology
Explicitly admit the error. Be honest and sincere.
Five steps to behave assertively
Describe how you view situation Disclose your feelings Identify effects Be silent Paraphrase
Assertiveness
Able to pursue one’s own best interests without denying others rights
Aggressiveness
Pursuit of one’s own interests by denying the rights of others
Non-verbal Communication Codes
Movement & Gestures, Eye contact, Facial expressions, Vocal cues, Personal space, Touch, Appearance