verbal communication Flashcards
what is verbal communication
- symbols in the form of spoken or written words
anything that can be translated into language (morse code, sign language etc.)
symbols: arbitrary
- no intrinsic connection between symbol and referent
- words and terms seem right because as a society we agree to use them in particular ways
symbols: ambiguous
- no clear-cut, precise meanings
- associated with a range of meanings, have a range of interpretations
- some degree of agreement exist within communication communities -> same language is used but what it means varies in relation to personal experiences, interests, identities and backgrounds
symbols: abstract
- words are not the phenomena to which they refer (“stand for” things but not the things they represent)
how language creates meaning: defining & evaluating phenomena - labels
- affects how we perceive what we have labeled
how language creates meaning: defining & evaluating phenomena - values
- language is not neutral, laden with values
how language creates meaning: defining & evaluating phenomena - totalising
- responding to a person as if one label totally represents that person, and fail to recognise many other aspects of the person
how language creates meaning: organising experiences
- classifying things into categories
- often times part of the perceptual process
how language creates meaning: invite higher-level thinking and reflection
- hypothetical thought
- self-reflection
how language creates meaning: defining relationships
- conveys messages about how we perceive ourselves and others
- sends signals about the relationship
- relationship-level meaning (responsiveness/care/attention, liking/affection, power/authority)
tips on effective verbal communication
- engage in person-centred communication
- be aware of abstract language
- qualify language (generalisations, static evaluation, indexing)
- own your thoughts and feelings
principles of communication: interpretation
active, creative process to make sense of experiences
- needed because language (symbols) is a^3
- create meaning by using language to represent institutional facts or the social meanings we attribute to brute facts
- meanings also grow out of context
principles of communication: guided by rules
we learn how to interpret language in the process of being socialised into a particular culture
communication rules: shared understandings about what communication means and what behaviours are appropriate (when to c, how to c, how to interpret other’s vc and nvc)
regulative rules
constitutive rules
- changes to rules can be negotiated
- can be shared or in private
principles of communication: punctuation
mark a flow of activity into meaningful units -> our perception of when interaction begins and ends
subjective perceptions