Unit 3 Flashcards
The Self in the social world
What can we call the answer to the question “I am..”?
our self-concept
-> what/who do you think you are?
What are Self-schemas?
elements of our self-concept
-> specific beliefs by which we define ourselves, organize and guide the processing of self-relevant information
-> organize our self-related experiences so we can respond quickly and effectively in social situations
What are Schemas?
mental templates to organize the world
What is an example for Self-schemas?
- being athletic = self-schema
-> noticing other’s skills and quickly recall sports-related experiences
What does the Self-concept and self-schema contribute to?
Our sense of control over our social world
What does the self-concept include?
who we might become:
- our visions of the self we dream of becoming
- images of what we dread of becoming
What does ‘The Self’ contain?
Self-concept - Who am I?
Self-esteem - My sense of Self-worth
Self-knowledge - How can I explain and predict myself?
Social self - My roles as students, family member, etc..
What is the Spotlight effect?
The tendency to see ourselves as center of the stage
- we think everyone pays more attention to us than they actually do
-> overestimating other’s attention
What is the illusion of transparency?
People don’t notice everything we think they do (emotions, thoughts, hair…)
What is the main message of illusion of transparency?
People notice less things than you think they do
What might be other interactions between the self and the social world?
- Social surroundings affect our self-awareness
- Self-interest colors our social judgment
- Self-concern motivates our social behavior
- Social relationships help define ourself
What is social comparison?
Who do you compare yourself with? How do you evaluate yourself?
- what social roles do you play?
- do you have a social identity? more than one? who are they?
- what are your good/bad traits?
- how likable are you?
What does the Social comparison theory state?
There are 2 types of comparison:
1. Upward
2. Downward
-> to obtain a yardstick to evaluate ourself, or asses if we are meeting norms
-> Depending on the motive of comparison: if we want to feel better about ourselves
What is an important factor nowadays regarding social comparison?
Social Media
What are some questions in Self-presentation?
What role do we play?
How do we present ourself?
Do we always present ourselves in the same way?
-> do we play different roles in different plays or are we always the same?
What is the Definition of Self-presentation?
The act of expressing oneself and behaving in ways designed to create a favorable impression or an impression that corresponds to one’s ideals
What is our goal in Self-presentation?
we want to present certain images of ourselves to both an external audience and an internal one (ourselves)
-> we make excuses, apologies or whatever is necessary to maintain that image (to others and ourselves)
What does the Self-other accuracy in predicting our behavior question?
if we chose how we present ourselves to others, which information we give and to whom, do we control how people perceive us? Can people know who we are better than ourselves?