Uneasy Situations Flashcards
When I feel awkward for not looking at someone at work
Relax into the difficulty, and later talk to them as friends
A coworker goes to a manager behind your back and then you run into the coworker at work
Be firm in every action and kill them with kindness
What do other people do when you say something and the person who was intended to laugh didn’t?
All they look for is whether or not you “apologize” or get embarrassed after
Someone asks to share pull-up station
“I prefer to finish my set before sharing. Would you mind waiting a bit?”
“I do mind waiting. That isn’t your equipment and I pay for this damn gym too!”
“I understand. I’ll be done in 5 minutes. If that doesn’t work for you, I can find another station”
What is the only time you should show lots of emotion during speech?
When you’re impressively steel manning the other’s argument. Then you follow that with a non-emotional explanation of why they’re wrong