TOXIC OR HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP Flashcards

1
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o obsessed with partner

o life revolves around partner

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UNHEALTHY/TOXIC

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2
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o gives up social life

o neglects family relationships

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UNHEALTHY/TOXIC

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3
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o relationship is characterized by power play, guilt-tripping, controlling, blaming, criticism, and manipulation

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UNHEALTHY/TOXIC

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4
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o tries to change partner into a different person

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UNHEALTHY/TOXIC

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5
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o need to prove your worth to your partner

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UNHEALTHY/TOXIC

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6
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o need approval from your partner

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UNHEALTHY/TOXIC

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7
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o being obsessed with partner’s problems and feelings

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UNHEALTHY/TOXIC

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8
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o rescuing

o being a knight in shining armor

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UNHEALTHY/TOXIC

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9
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o fusion

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UNHEALTHY/TOXIC

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10
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o unable to endure separation

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UNHEALTHY/TOXIC

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11
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o clinging to each other

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UNHEALTHY/TOXIC

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12
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o neediness for each other is proof of love for each other

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UNHEALTHY/TOXIC

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13
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o relationship is characterized by hurts, suffocation, tiredness, neediness, and conflicts

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UNHEALTHY/TOXIC

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14
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o development of self is first priority

o partners give each other space to grow

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HEALTHY

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15
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o maintains close contact with family and friends

o partners have common friends but also keeps a personal set of friends

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HEALTHY

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16
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o relationship is characterized by pro-active problem-solving negotiation, taking turns at leading

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HEALTHY

17
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o accepts partner’s individuality and uniqueness

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HEALTHY

18
Q

o agrees to disagree

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HEALTHY

19
Q

o self-love and self-worth which is not dependent on the partner

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HEALTHY

20
Q

o concerned about partner’s problem but allows partner to take care of his or her own problems

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HEALTHY

21
Q

o loving detachment

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HEALTHY

22
Q

o ability to enjoy being alone

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HEALTHY

23
Q

o happy with or without the presence of partner

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HEALTHY

24
Q

o relationship is characterized by inspiration, lightness, commitment, and friendship

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HEALTHY