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PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP Flashcards

1
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ARISTOTLE called humans “__________”

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the social animal

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a feelings that makes someone romantically or sexually interested in another person

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ATTRACTION

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a feature or quality that makes someone or something interesting or enjoyable

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ATTRACTION

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“liking” something or someone

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ATTRACTION

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FACTORS THAT LEAD TO FRIENDSHIP AND ATTRACTION:

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PROXIMITY
FAMILIARITY
SIMILARITY
PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS
DESIRABLE PERSONAL ATTRIBUTES
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proximity breeds liking because of what

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availability

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factor that leads to attraction that refers to geographical nearness

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PROXIMITY

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the best single predictor of whether two people will be friends is what

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how far apart they live

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9
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proximity can also breed ______ but much more often, proximity prompts liking

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hostility

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10
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factor that leads to attraction that is a form of remembering in which a person provokes a subjective feeling of recognition and is therefore believed to be in memory, although it is not specifically recalled

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FAMILIARITY

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familiar is assumed to be similar to ______

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self

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in familiarity, there is an optimal level of exposure, too much can lead to what

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boredom and satiation

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familiarity is most effective if stimulus is initially viewed as ______ or ________

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positive or neutral

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14
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in familiarity, pre-existing conflicts between people will get _______, not ________, with exposure

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intensified; decrease

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factor that leads to attraction that describes how we like others who are similar to us in attitudes, interests, values, background, and personality

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SIMILARITY

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in romantic relationships, the tendency to choose similar others is called the “_______________”

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matching phenomenon

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a phenomenon when people tend to choose someone whose attractiveness roughly matches their own, but in cases when someone is less attractive, the latter often compensates with other qualities

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matching phenomenon

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the tendency of two people to complete what is missing in the other, may develop as a relationship progresses

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COMPLEMENTARITY

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as a general rule, opposite _______ attract

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do not

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20
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factor that leads to attraction that is whatever the people of any given place and time find attractive

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PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS

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21
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the assumption that physically attractive people possess other desirable traits

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PHYSICAL-ATTRACTIVENESS STEREOTYPE

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22
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_______ plays a large role in standards of attractiveness

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culture

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people do tend to agree on some features that are seen as more attractive, such as:

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statistically “average faces”

symmetrical or balanced faces

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for both sexes, characteristics such as _____________________ are most important

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dependability,
maturity,
pleasantness

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25
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in mate selection, men rank ___________ higher, while women rank _____________ higher

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physical attractiveness;

financial resources

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26
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factor that leads to attraction that is the personal qualities that initially attract us to someone

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DESIRABLE PERSONAL ATTRIBUTES

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27
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within the U.S., the most-liked characteristics are those related to these three

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trustworthiness,
personal warmth,
competence

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what characteristic is shown when people appear warm when they have a positive attitude and express liking, praise and approval

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PERSONAL WARMTH

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nonverbal behaviors such as smiling, attentiveness, and expressing emotions also contribute to perceptions of ________

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warmth

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30
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what characteristic is shown by people who are socially skilled, intelligent, and competent

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COMPETENCE

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31
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the type of competence that matters most depends on the _______ of the relationship

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nature

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32
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the personal qualities that initially attract us to someone can sometimes turn out to be ________ to a relationship

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fatal flaws

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33
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people yearn for it, live for it, die for it but there is no single definition of what ____ is, because it is difficult to measure, perplexing to study

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LOVE

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34
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theory that explains the topic of love in an interpersonal relationship

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TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE

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35
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three components of love

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intimacy component
passion component
decision/commitment component

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36
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the TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE was developed by which psychologist

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ROBERT STERNBERG

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37
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component of love that is described as feelings of closeness and connectedness in relationships, which include experienced happiness, high regard, and mutual understanding

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INTIMACY

38
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> 

being emotionally close to your partner
being able to let your guard down, and let him or 
    her know how you really feel (what component of love?)
A

INTIMACY

39
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> 

being able to accept and share in your partner’s 
    feelings
being there when he/she wants to let their 
    defenses down (what component of love?)
A

INTIMACY

40
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component of love that is described as feelings of romance, physical attraction, and sexual arousal in a relationships

A

PASSION

41
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PASSION is closely tied to the _______ component; for instance, passion may develop immediately, and it is only after a while that _______ develops

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intimacy; intimacy

42
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_______ may draw two people into a relationship, but _______ sustains the closeness, or vice versa

A

passion; intimacy

43
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component of love that offers couples a sense of being part of a team, a desire for a future together and a desire to sacrifice for each other

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DECISION/COMMITMENT

44
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DECISION/COMMITMENT consists of two aspects:

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short term, or the decision to love someone

long term, or the decision to maintain that love

45
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enumerate the 8 kinds of love

A 
NONLOVE
LIKING/FRIENDSHIP
INFATUATED LOVE
EMPTY LOVE
ROMANTIC LOVE
COMPANIONATE LOVE
FATUOUS LOVE
CONSUMMATE LOVE
46
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kind of love that is a set of feelings one experiences without the intense feeling of passion or commitment in the romantic sense

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LIKING/FRIENDSHIP

47
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kind of love that is a root for the other forms of love to manifest

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LIKING/FRIENDSHIP

48
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kind of love when only intimacy is present

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LIKING/FRIENDSHIP

49
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kind of love that shows absence of all three components

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NONLOVE

50
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crushes (whether celebrity or not) fall under this category

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INFATUATED LOVE

51
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people with nothing but a sexual relationship with each other also manifest this category, as they are only bound by carnal desires and nothing more

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INFATUATED LOVE

52
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this is the most common root of romantic love, as it is believed that intimacy develops over time

A

INFATUATED LOVE

53
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kind of love that is “Love at first sight” by experiencing passionate arousal

A

INFATUATED LOVE

54
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kind of love when only passion is present

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INFATUATED LOVE

55
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a strong love may deteriorate into ______ love – an example of this is an unhappy marriage, where the intimacy or the liking for the spouse is gone, and the flames of passion have already been put out a long time ago; nothing left but the contract of marriage itself

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empty

56
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this kind of love is found in stagnant relationships that have been going for years but have lost the physical attraction and emotional involvement they once had

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EMPTY LOVE

57
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kind of love when only commitment is present

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EMPTY LOVE

58
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lovers who are under this category are said to not only be drawn and bonded physically, but emotionally as well

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ROMANTIC LOVE

59
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kind of love that is one of the most common stepping stones to a married life

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ROMANTIC LOVE

60
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kind of love when both intimacy and passion are present

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ROMANTIC LOVE

61
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kind of love that is a type of whirlwind romances that we see in our television sets

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FATUOUS LOVE

62
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when intense, passionate love becomes lukewarm, this triggers ______, especially for those who believe romantic love is essential for a marriage and its continuation

A

disillusion

63
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kind of love where a commitment is made on the basis of passion without the stabilizing influence of intimate involvement

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FATUOUS LOVE

64
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kind of love when both passion and commitment are present

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FATUOUS LOVE

65
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COMPANIONATE LOVE is stronger than friendship because of the element of what

A

commitment

66
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kind of love observed in long-term marriages, where you don’t exactly need passion in order to stay in love with your partner because the affection remains

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COMPANIONATE LOVE

67
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kind of love observed among family members and close friends who have a platonic, but strong friendship

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COMPANIONATE LOVE

68
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kind of love when both intimacy and commitment are present

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COMPANIONATE LOVE

69
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kind of love that is a deep, steady and affectionate attachment that is just as real

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COMPANIONATE LOVE

70
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kind of love that sits at the very center of the triangle, because this is said to be the perfect and ideal type of love

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CONSUMMATE LOVE

71
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all three components are present in this type of love

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CONSUMMATE LOVE

72
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kind of love that is a goal for people who are in a relationship

A

CONSUMMATE LOVE

73
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according to Sternberg, couples with this kind of love cannot imagine themselves happier over the long-term with anyone else, they overcome their difficulties gracefully, and each delight in the relationship with the other

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CONSUMMATE LOVE

74
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maintaining this relationship is harder than achieving it, and this is not a permanent form of love

A

CONSUMMATE LOVE

75
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ENUMERATE THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES

A 
QUALITY TIME
ACTS OF SERVICE
WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
PHYSICAL TOUCH
RECEIVING GIFTS
76
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being there for a person with this love language is critical, but really being there – with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby – makes your significant other feel truly special and loved

A

QUALITY TIME

77
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distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful to a person with this love language

A

QUALITY TIME

78
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anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on a person with this love language will speak volumes

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ACTS OF SERVICE

79
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the words a person with this love language most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.”

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ACTS OF SERVICE

80
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laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings do not matter

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ACTS OF SERVICE

81
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when others serve a person with this love language out of love (and not obligation), they feel truly valued and loved

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ACTS OF SERVICE

82
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for a person with this love language, actions don’t always speak louder than words

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WORDS OF AFFIRMATION

83
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if this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you

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WORDS OF AFFIRMATION

84
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for a person with this love language hearing the words “I love you,” are important – hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skywards

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WORDS OF AFFIRMATION

85
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insults can leave a person with this love language shattered and are not easily forgotten

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WORDS OF AFFIRMATION

86
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a person with this love language thrive on hearing kind and encouraging words that build you up

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WORDS OF AFFIRMATION

87
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a person whose primary language of love is _______ is, not surprisingly, very touchy

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PHYSICAL TOUCH

88
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for a person with this love language, physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive

A

PHYSICAL TOUCH

89
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for a person with this love language, receiving gifts is not materialism, but instead they thrive on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift

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RECEIVING GIFTS

90
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if you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you

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RECEIVING GIFTS

91
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for a person with this love language, a missed birthday or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous – so would the absence of everyday gestures

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RECEIVING GIFTS

92
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______ are heartfelt symbols to you of someone else’s love and affection for you

A

gifts

PERDEV 2ND QTR (6 decks)

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