Speech - Lesson 5 Flashcards
All the messages we send in ways that transcend spoken or written words
Nonverbal communication
Cues we send with our body, voice, space, time and appearance to support, modify, contradict, or even replace a verbal message
Play an important role in communication
Meaning comes from nonverbal messages we use to communicate in face-to-face interactions
Widespread use of social media and smart phone technology to communicate today
E.g., e-mail, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, texting
Nonverbal Messages
Types of nonverbal messages
Kinesics - use of body
Paralanguage - use of voice
Proxemics - use of space
Chronemics - use of time
Appearance - including clothing and grooming
Phrase “we cannot NOT communicate”
If you are in a presence of someone else your nonverbal messages are communicating
Ex. when Austin yawns and stares off into the distance during class, one classmate might interpret this as a sign of boredom, fatigue, or another may view it as a message of disrespect
Nonverbal communication is inevitable
Interpret how others feel based almost entirely on their nonverbal messages
Ex. when Janelle frowns, clenches her fist, and say I AM NOT ANGRY “her sister is likely to ignore the verbal message and believe the contradicting nonverbal message
nonverbal communication is the primary conveyer of emotions
Perceive meaning from a combination of nonverbal behavior including
Posture
Gestures
Facial expressions
Vocal pitch and rate
Appearance
Ex. failure to sustain eye contact, bowed head, repetitive toe-stubbing, it is a sign of lying
nonverbal communication is multi-channeled
Very few nonverbal messages mean the same thing to everyone
Ex. direct eye contact tends to be understood as a sign of respect but in other country it might be interpreted as disrespectful
Nonverbal communication is ambiguous
What and how body motions communicate
may use gestures, eye contact, facial expression, posture, and touch
Agree or disagree: the lack of nonverbal cues, like paralanguage, in online setups makes us lack empathy.
What are other possible outcomes of this exchange if we use paralanguage (pitch, volume, rate, quality, intonation and vocalized pauses)
Kinesics (Use of Body)
Movements of our hands, arms, and fingers to communicate
Gestures
Gestures that substitute entirely for a word or words
Ex. we raise a finger and place it vertically across our lips, it signifies “Be quiet”
Emblems
Gestures that clarify the verbal message
Ex. when we say “about this high” or “nearly this round” we are likely to gesture to clarify what we mean.
Illustrators
Unconscious responses to physical or psychological needs
Ex. we may scratch an itch, adjust our glasses, or jingle the keys in our pockets.
Adaptors
How and how much do we look at others when communicating
Eye contact (oculesics)
Using facial muscles to communicate emotions
To convey emotions
Ex. we may furrow our brows and squint our eyes when we are confused, or purse our lips and raise one eyebrow to convey skepticism
1982 emoticons have actually been in use
Facial expressions
How we position nad move our body
Can communicate attentiveness, respect, and dominance
Posture
How we position our body in relation to other people
Body orientation
Is when two people face each other squarely
Tends signal attentiveness and respect
Ex. we are likely to sit up straight and face the interviewer directly
Direct Body Orientation
Is when two people sit or stand side-by-side
Indirect Body Orientation
Changing body position
Ex. when making a speech, an upright stance and squared shoulders communicates poise and confidence
Body movement
A movement that helps clarify the meaning
Motivated