relationships Flashcards
what is evolutionary theory?
First theorised by Charles Darwin. Evolution refers to the gradual development of different kinds of living organisms as time progresses.
what does sexual selection explain?
why some characteristics that might seem disadvantageous might have advantages in terms of human reproductive behaviour.
what does anisogamy refer to?
to the differences between male and females sex cells.
what are sperm cells like?
Male gametes or sperm, are very small, highly mobile, created continuously and in vast numbers from puberty to old age, and do not require a great expenditure to produce.
what are egg cells like?
Female gametes or eggs are relatively large,static produced at intervals for a limited number of fertile years and require a huge investment of energy.
what is intersexual competition?
Selecting who you believe is fit to continue family in the opposite sex
Eg if height is considered an attractive trait then, over successive generations of fmeales, it would increase in the male population because females would mate with tall males and, over time, produces males.
what is intersexual known as?
This is known as a runaway process, encapsulated by fisher 1930 in his sexy sons’ hypothesis. A female mates with a male with a desirable trait and this sexy trait is inherited by her son. This increases the likelihood that successive generations of females will mater with her offspring.
what is intrasexual
Preferred strategy of the male quantity over quality. Refers to the competition between (intra) males to be able to mate with a female. The winner gets to pass on to his offspring the characteristic that contributed to his victory. This has given rise to dimorphism in humans, the obvious difference.
Intrasexual sexual selection has behavioural and psychological consequences, although these are more controversial. For example, for males to acquire fertile females and protect them from competing males, they may benefit from aggression.
what does anisogamy dictate about intrasexual competition?
Anisogamy dictates that the males optimum reproductive strategy is to mate with as many fertile females as possible. This is because of the minimal energy required to produce enough sperm, and the relative lack of post coital responsibility. A behavioural consequence of this competition for fertile mates is a distinct preference for youth and a sensitivity to the indicators of youth as well as fertility.
what are the strengths for the sexual selection theory?
Research support for preferences related to anisogamy. Buss 1989 10000 adults in 33 countries. Questions asked relating to age and a variety of attributes that evolutionary theory predicts should be important. Females are more interested in resource related characteristics. Males valued reproductive capacity in terms of good looks and chastity, and preferred younger mates, more than females did.
Clark and Hatfield showed that female choosiness is a reality of heterosexual relationship. Found that not a single female student agreed to sleep with the confederate and 75% of males did, immediately. Shows men are less choosy
Hip to waist ratio
Singh 1993-2002 what matters in male preference is not female body size as such but the ratio of waist to hip sizes. Males generally find any hip to waist sizes attractive so long as the ratio of one to the other is about 0.7. This combination is attractive because it is an honest signal.
Waynforth and Dunbar studied lonely hearts advertisements in American newspapers. Were opportunities for men and women to describe the qualities they desired in a potential partner. Researchers found that women more than men tended to offer physical attractiveness and indicators of youth. Men, on the other hand offered resources more than women and sought relative youth and physical attractiveness
what are the weaknesses of sexual selection theory?
Ignores social and cultural influence
Social norms of sexuality have been changing. This changes quicker than evolution timescales imply and have instead come about due to cultural factors such as contraception. Women are no longer dependent on men to provide for them. Bereczhei et al 1997 argue that this social change has consequences for women’s mate preferences, and may no longer be resource oriented.
Chang et al 2011 compared partner preferences in China over 25 years and found that some had changed but others remained the same, corresponding with the huge social changes in that time. Fails to account for cultural influences
what is self disclosure?
information we choose to reveal about within a romantic relationship. The aim is to increase the intimacy, understanding and empathy between two individuals. Self disclosure has vital roles in relationships beyond the initial attraction.
what did Altman and Taylor propose?
that self disclosure allows a person to penetrate deeper into the life of their partner, thus increasing intimacy and trust. When one partner reveals information, they display trust; to go further the other partner must also reveal sensitive information. As they disclose more information romantic partners penetrate more deeply into each other’s lives and gain a greater understanding of each other.
what are the elements to self disclosure and what happens when they increase
breadth and depth.
when one increases the other does and intimacy increases.
what does Reiss and Shaver propose?
for a relationship to develop there needs to be a reciprocal element to disclosure. Once you disclose something, hopefully your partner will respond in a way that is rewarding with understanding, empathy and also their own thoughts and feelings.
what is the breadth of disclosure like at the beginning and why
Breadth of disclosure is narrow because many topics are off limit. We think if we were to reveal too much too soon, we might threaten the relationship. Eventually we are prepared to reveal intimate,high-risk information.
what is the advantages for self disclosure?
research support
Sprecher and Hendrick 2004 found in heterosexual couples and found strong correlations between several measures of satisfaction and self disclosure.
Laurenceau et al 2005 found that self disclosure and perception of self disclosure in a partner were linked to higher levels of intimacy
Real life application can improve communication is struggling relationships. Used deliberately and skillfully to increase intimacy
Hass and Stafford found that 57% of gay men and women found that self disclosure was beneficial
what are the drawbacks of self disclosure
Cultural differences
Increasing the breadth and depth of self disclosure will lead to a more satisfying relationship is not ture for all cultures. Tang et al reviewed the research regarding sexual self disclosrue and found that people in the USA found that more sexual thoughts than men and women in China
Self disclosure and satisfaction
Theories of relationship breakdown often recognise how couples discuss and negotiate the state of their deteriorating relationship in an attempt to save it. Their discussions frequently involve deep self-disclosure but it isn’t enough to rescue the relationship. Doesn’t explain why when people stop a relationship they disclose the most intimate information.
Self disclosure is correlational to a good relationship but not causational. Can never establish “cause and effect” relationship between two variables as there may be other variables involve.