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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
What is the key assumption?

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Instinctive, hardwired, darwin survival of the fittest, sexual selection for reproduction

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
Define intrasexual

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Short term dating preferences

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
What is sexual dimorphism?

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Physical traits men have had to evolve to be bigger and more distinct in their characteristics than women

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
What do men compete for?

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The ‘choosy’ female, anisogamy limited reproductive possibility compared to men, biological clock

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
What does menopause mean?

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There is a certain gap available for women to conceive and carry a baby. Women have one egg released a month and have to be choosy bc face more consequences

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
What did Buss and Schmitt find?

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Universal trends for short term dting in men and women.

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
What were B and S traits for men?

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Less time spent with a woman, the more he can mate with, seek sex earlier in a relationship and lose interest afterwards

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
What did Clark and Hatfield do?

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Ask students if they would sleep with a random person? Women 0%, men 75%. Men hardwired in comparison to women

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
Define intersexuality

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Long term sexual relationships

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
What did Buss look at?

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37 cultures across the globe, 10-000 pps

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
What is fecundity?

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What unites men and women with what they find attractive

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
Men to women

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The ability to produce instinctively drawn to physical traits for women (signs of fertility)

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
Women to men

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Mens ability to care for children

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
Why do women prefer older men?

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Because more experience, which can make them more likely to provide resources and look after women plus offspring

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
Why do women care about what a man looks like?

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Not for attraction but for idea/ good looking offspring

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
What physical traits do women look for?

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Strength, symmetry (good genes), good looking, intelligent, healthy

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
Give two positives for women

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+ Research - sexy sons hypothesis
+ Sperm donor evidence - Scheib 1994 studies women seeking sperm donor, look for same qualities as evolutionairy theory

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
What are characteristics men find attractive?

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Big eyes, petite nose, hair colour, lips, clear skin, hourglass figure

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
What hypothesis did Cunningham propose?

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The babyface hypothesis

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
What do men naturally look for?

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Youthful features bc of fertility, hourglass figure women have when they’re young and disappears during menopause

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
What is Singh’s positive?

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Hips 0.7 wider than waist deemed universally attractive

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
A03 face validity

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‘Sugar daddies’, cliches within society, ‘first wives club’

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EVOLUTIONARY EXPLANATION FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
A03 reductionism

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Reduce attraction to one factor, fecundity cannot explain all factors. For example the ‘graduation effect’ where med attracted to older women who can’t reproduce

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EVOLUTIONAIRY EXPLANATIONS FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
Why is this theory reductionist?

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Heteronormative, the graduate effect (Dame Joan Collins)

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EVOLUTIONAIRY EXPLANATIONS FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
What are the methodology issues?

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Lack of scientific methodology: making large speculations about early mankind, cannot scientifically validate, non falsifiable

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EVOLUTIONAIRY EXPLANATIONS FOR SEXUAL SELECTION
Why is this theory deterministic?

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Justifies promiscuity in men, could it legitimise rape and harassment?

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FACTORS AFFECTING ATTRACTION
Which psychologist did the halo effect?

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Dion et al

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FACTORS AFFECTING ATTRACTION
What is the halo effect?

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Associative principles: “what is beautiful is good”, we associate physically attractive people with having more positive attributes

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FACTORS AFFECTING ATTRACTION
What can the halo effect be described as?

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A self fulfilling prophecy

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FACTORS AFFECTING ATTRACTION
Give research support of the halo effect

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Palmer and Peterson found physically attractive people were rated as more politically knowledgeable than unattractive people

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FACTORS AFFECTING ATTRACTION
Who did the matching hypothesis?

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Murstein

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FACTORS AFFECTING ATTRACTION
What is the matching hypothesis?

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People tend to form relationships w others who are equivalent to their own physical attractiveness

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FACTORS AFFECTING ATTRACTION
What may people who don’t match on a physical level trade?

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Other attributes such as wealth or status

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FACTORS AFFECTING ATTRACTION
What is Walster’s computer dance study?

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Assess own value then choose someone in same league

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FACTORS AFFECTING ATTRACTION
What did Walster get pps to do?

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Meet before a dance, spend time chatting. Pps then danced with a partner ranked in same league

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FACTORS AFFECTING ATTRACTION
Describe murstein and photos

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Showed photos of engaged couples, tendency for them to be given same levels of attractiveness

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FACTORS AFFECTING ATTRACTION
Give three negatives of this theory

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Culture bias, determinism, temporal validity

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THE FORMATION OF RELATIONSHIPS
Who came up with filter theory?

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Kerchhoff and Davis

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THE FORMATION OF RELATIONSHIPS
How many filters are there and what do they lead to?

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3, field of availables to field of desirables

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THE FORMATION OF RELATIONSHIPS
Filter one

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Demographic variables: geography, age, class

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THE FORMATION OF RELATIONSHIPS
Filter two

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Similarity in attitudes: compatibility eg politics or future plans

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THE FORMATION OF RELATIONSHIPS
Filter three

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Complementary mental needs: strengths in one person may counteract the other

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THE FORMATION OF RELATIONSHIPS
Give one positive

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Kerchoff and Davis: 94 US couples given a range of questions which supported model

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THE FORMATION OF RELATIONSHIPS
Give three negatives

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Temporal validity, cultural validity, alt explanations

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SELF DISCLOSURE
Who came up with this theory?

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Jourard

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SELF DISCLOSURE
What is self disclosure?

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When a person reveals intimate details about themselves

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SELF DISCLOSURE
Describe early days

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We love to learn as much as we can from our partners: likes, interests, hopes, attitudes

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SELF DISCLOSURE
Why is sd an important process?

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Builds trust and intimacy, helps course of relationships run smoother

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SELF DISCLOSURE
Describe Derlega et als research

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Don’t disclose too much too early, boom or bust philosophy. Don’t be too impersonal listener doesn’t care

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SELF DISCLOSURE
What does research show?

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Those who disclose to a high extent are more liked than those who don’t. Tend to disclose more to pp you like

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SELF DISCLOSURE
Describe Atman and Taylor’s research

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2 elements of self disclosure, breadth and depth, as both increase partners become more committed

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SELF DISCLOSURE
As relationships start what info is shared?

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Low risk info, social penetration theory.

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SELF DISCLOSURE
What is social penetration theory?

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As relationships develop self disclosure deeper

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SELF DISCLOSURE
Tal-Or et al research

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Reality TV shows, Intimate disclosure of contestants early on make them more likeable

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SELF DISCLOSURE
Research support positive

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Laurenca used daily diary entries with couples, self disclosure and perception of self disclosure linked to higher levels of intimacy in long term married couples

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SELF DISCLOSURE
One positive

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RWA: couples therapy

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SELF DISCLOSURE
One negative

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Culture bias

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SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
What is SET part of?

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Relationship maintenence

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SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
What type of theory is this?

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An economic theory

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SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
Who did this theory?

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Thibaut & Kelley

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SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
What view does this theory take?

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Social relationships run in a similar way to businesses, negotiating for best deal

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SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
What principle is this based on?

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Operant conditioning: form and maintain relationships bc they are rewarding

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SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
Give three reward examples

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Comfort, sex, love + affection

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SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
What is assumed we all do?

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Maximise our profits bc relationships can be costly

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SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
Give three ways relationships can be costly?

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Time consuming, hardwork

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SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
What is the comparison level?

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Developing a standard by comparing relationships, based on past relationships and what we expect to give/recieve

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SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
What happens if we judge the potential profit of a new relationship to exceed that of an existing one?

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Become dissatisfied

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SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
What do we make?

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A comparison level for alternatives where we weigh up potential increases in rewards from a new partner, minus any costs involved in ending current relationship (CLalt)

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SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
Give the research support

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Kurdek and Schmitt: questionnaire, greater satisfaction came w positive perception of relationships. Alternatives viewed less attractively

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SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
Give two positves

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RWA: couples counselling
RWA: gaslighting oneself, attractive but…

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SOCIAL EXCHANGE THEORY
Give two negatives

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Determinism
Culture bias

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THE INVESTMENT MODEL
Main psychologist?

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Rusbutt

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THE INVESTMENT MODEL
What is the investment model about?

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Factors influencing time and emotional investment in a relationship

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THE INVESTMENT MODEL
What factors influence time and emotional investment in a relationship?

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Satisfaction, Alternatives, Investments

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THE INVESTMENT MODEL
What do satisfaction, alternatives and investments make up, and what does this lead to?

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Make up commitment levels, leading to whether a person stays or leaves

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THE INVESTMENT MODEL
Describe satisfaction levels

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Positive vs negative emotions experienced

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THE INVESTMENT MODEL
Describe investment size

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Contributes to stability, increases dependency so more commitment

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THE INVESTMENT MODEL
Describe quality of alternatives

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Potential other partners

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THE INVESTMENT MODEL
Define intrinsic

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Motivation from within, eg happiness or sex

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THE INVESTMENT MODEL
Define extrinsic

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External motivation, children or financial stability

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THE INVESTMENT MODEL
Le and Agnew supporting research

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Meta analysis of 52 studies, 11-000 pps. Satisfaction, comp w alternatives and investment contributed to commitment, a key feature of long lasting relationships

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THE INVESTMENT MODEL
Give a positive

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RWA: can explain why pp stay in abusive relationships, may feel investment will be lost even if costs are high

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THE INVESTMENT MODEL
Give two negatives

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Methodology issues: most research is correlations, limits predictive validity therefore scientific rigour
Questionnaires: self report technique and subjective scales

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WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS BREAKDOWN?
What should you mention at the beginning?

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Social exchange theory and/or equity

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WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS BREAKDOWN?
Who proposed the model of breakdown?

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Rollie and Duck

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WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS BREAKDOWN?
What is stage one?

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Breakdown: “I can’t stand this”

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WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS BREAKDOWN?
What is stage two?

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Intrapsychic: brooding on faults

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WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS BREAKDOWN?
What is stage three?

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Dyadic: discussion

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WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS BREAKDOWN?
What is stage four?

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Social: seeking support

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WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS BREAKDOWN?
What is stage five?

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Grave dressing: stories prepared, a way of tying up memories

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WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS BREAKDOWN?
When are relationships still salvageable?

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Stages one to three

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WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS BREAKDOWN?
What did Tashino et al say?

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Lots of benefits to the Grave Dressing Stage, psychological closure

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WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS BREAKDOWN?
What did Duck realise?

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There was a flaw in og model, we can learn from every exp we go through

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WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS BREAKDOWN?
Stage six was then added, what was it?

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Resurrection: changing and moving on

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WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS BREAKDOWN?
Give Tashira’s research support

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92 undergrads, all reported had grown/learned via a previous relationship.

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WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS BREAKDOWN?
Give one positive

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RWA: Counselling

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WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS BREAKDOWN?
Give three negatives

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  • Ethics
  • Gender bias: assumes men and women the same
  • Culture bias
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PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS
What is a parasocial relationship?

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One sided, unreciprocal. Role of social media increases the prevelance and intensity

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PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS
What are the two parts of parasocial?

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Absorption addiction model, attachment types

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PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS
Who did absorbtion addiction and what did they say?

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McCucheon, most pp never go beyond admiring but psr occur if there is something lacking

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PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS
What is stage one of ABAD?

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Entertainment social: admire celebs, may eep up w news to be more sociable w peers, “water cooler moments”

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PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS
What is stage two of ABAD?

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Intense personal: intense/obsessive feelings can become addictive, compulsive

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PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS
What is stage three of ABAD?

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Borderline pathological, uncontrollable beh and fantasies, total obsessions

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PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS
How does Eysneck’s personality q support the ABAD?

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Correlation, ES linked to extraversion, IP linked to neuroticism, introverts more likely to be BP

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PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS
What is Jenkin’s positive of the ABAD?

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Practice relationships, what you want from somebody else

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PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS
Who did the attachment types part?

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McCaan, PSR tent to originate in insecure attachments, most likely insecure resistant. Make no demands unlike real relationships, no risk of rejection

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PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS
How did Keinlen support the attachment types?

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63% of stalkers seperation from an attachment figure

108
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PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS
How did cole et al support the attachment types?

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Insecurely attachmed far more prone to PR w TV personalities

109
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PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS
Give two negatives

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  • Hereditary: rooted in genes, hunters, rather than celeb culture
  • Methodology: self report, correlation
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VIRTUAL RELATIONSHIPS
What should you mention briefly in a 16 marker?

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Self disclosure

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VIRTUAL RELATIONSHIPS
Online, what happens in terms of self disclosure?

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We use different levels, public vs private. Public more self edited and less intimate

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VIRTUAL RELATIONSHIPS
What did Rubin’s anonymity strangers on the train study show?

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More likely to open up online bc there are fewer repercussions. Confidentiality, social circle not known. Don’t have to self edit or fear rejection

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VIRTUAL RELATIONSHIPS
What is gating?

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Ftf relationships, barriers to formation “ick”

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VIRTUAL RELATIONSHIPS
Is gating absent on cmc?

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Yes, means relationship can develop to point self disclosure becomes deeper and more frequent

115
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VIRTUAL RELATIONSHIPS
Give two examples of gating

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Shyness, speech imped

116
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VIRTUAL RELATIONSHIPS
Give two positives

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:) 70% of the online relationships last longer than 2 years
:) RWA: 38% of all US single pp have tried dating this way, higher levels of disclosure

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VIRTUAL RELATIONSHIPS
Give two negatives

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:( Catfishing
:( Methodology: self report technique