Peers, friendships and bullying Flashcards
Piaget 1932
children’s relationships with peers = relationships with adults
Attachment theory Bowlby 1969
the repeated experiences of interactions with friends leads to an internalisation of social expectations
Sullivan 1953
mutual respect, equality and reciprocity develop from peer relationships
Cooley and Mead 1934
the ability to reflect on the self develops as a function of peer play and peer interaction
social learning theory 1963
direct peer influence and indirect observation of peers
group socialisation theory Harris 1995
peer group plays a more significant role in children’s personality and social development than parents
Parental direct influences
- provide peer interaction opportunities
- show how to interact with other children by modelling
Parental indirect influences
- parenting
- attachment
- parent-child play
- parent’s social network
why are friendships important?
- fostering development of social competence
- serving as a source of ego support
- providing emotional security
- source of intimacy and affection
- providing guidance and assistance
prosocial
- academically and socially competent
- good communication skills
- effectively resolve conflict
- can join group activities by adapting their own behaviour
antisocial
- uncommon sub-type until later on in childhood
- characterised by aggressiveness
- often thought of as cool and tough
rejected aggressive
conduct problems, poor social and emotional understanding, antagonistic
rejected withdrawn
passive and lonely children, high incidence of social anxiety, likely to be victimised
Salmivalli 2010 roles in cyber bullying situation
- the bully or leader
- active bystander - assistant
- active bystander - the reinforcer
- active bystander - the defender (of the victim)
- the outsider/passive bystander
- the victim
Bullies characteristics
Good theory of mind abilities, good organisation abilities, but some bullies have poor social skills and some may be ‘controversial’, less empathy