Parenting and Family Flashcards
- Socialization (the process by which children acquire the beliefs, values, and behaviors considered desirable or appropriate by their culture or subculture)
- Reproduction
- Promotes personal growth (parents might help children foster a sense of purpose)
- Perpetuate social order
The Four Functions of Families
The process by which children acquire the beliefs, values, and behaviors considered desirable or appropriate by their culture or subculture
Socialization
High Acceptance, high control. Flexible, democratic, warm, accepting, provide guidance and control
Authoritative Parenting Style
Low acceptance, high control. Restrictive, set rules, expect obedience, rely on power to elicit compliance
Authoritarian
High acceptance, low control. Accepting but lax, few demands and rarely attempt to control child’s behavior.
Permissive
Low acceptance, low control. extremely lax and undemanding style, reject the child or are too busy to bother raising them
Uninvolved
Arguably the best parenting style. Consistently associated with positive developmental outcomes. Communication, caring, concern, exercises control in a reasonable way, sets realistic standards and allows autonomy
Authoritative Parenting
Authoritative- less in minority, more in euro-american families, Authoritarian- more in minority, more in lower socioeconomic classes, most specifically Asian
Ethnic and SES differences in parenting styles
Jobs that require obedience to an authority - lower SES - authoritarian parenting style prepares the child for this.
Increased stress leads to less sensitivity to children - too stressed to be the sensitive parent they want to be
Skills hypothesis
Conger’s Family Distress Model
Theories that explain SES and ethnic/cultural differences in parenting styles
Having at least one authoritative parent is the best outcomes for children, but it is best to have two authoritative parents (inconsistent with one authoritative is better than consistent with non-authoritative)
Studies on consistency in parents
Constellation of attitudes towards the child that are communicated to the child and create an emotional climate in which the parent’s behaviors are expressed, the emotional climate produced by parent
vs
Specific behaviors defined by specific content and socialization goals, observable, definable behaviors
Parenting Style vs Parenting Practices
Important developmental task for adolescents
Capacity to make one’s own decisions independently
Ability to serve as one’s own source of emotional strength
Ability to manage one’s life tasks without depending on others
Autonomy
Parent-child relationships in adolescence, controversial over ____. Presents view issues as social-conventional (they have the responsibility to monitor and regulate their teen), teens view issues as personal rights (they should be able to decide to clean their room or not) ___.
Social Domain Theory, autonomy
(1/2) Learn from your sibling, want to be like your sbiling
Social Learning Theory of Sibling Relationships
(2/2) want to be completely opposite of your sibling, want to stand out from your sibling
Sibling deidentification Theory of Sibling Relationships
Relatively high self-esteem and achievement motivation
More obedient and slightly more intellectually competent than children with siblings
Parents have more time to spend on the child teaching
Likely to establish very good relations with peers
Only Children