Papers Flashcards
What is the “good enough sex” model? (Muise et al, 2016)
It is impt for couples to engage in sexual intimacy to maintain satisfying romantic r/s
But also to hold realistic expectations abt their sex life
In Muise et al, 2016, the association between sexual frequency and well-being is mediated by…
R/s satisfaction
In Muise et al, 2013, associations between sexual goals and enhanced satisfaction were mediated by…
Sexual desire
Approach goals -> Higher sexual desire -> Higher satisf
Avoidance goals -> Lower sexual desire -> Lower satisf
What are approach goals?
Goals that direct ppl toward positive outcomes
What are avoidance goals?
Goals that are focused on avoiding negative outcomes
(Buck & Neff, 2012) Stress spillover is associated with… and mediated by…
More negative behaviours toward partner
Less positive appraisals of the r/s
Mediated by self-regulatory depletion
(Arriaga et al, 2015) People tolerate more tolerant standards for aggression when…
- Common aggression viewed as more normal and less of a dealbreaker
- Amongst those who experienced aggression before
- When it is personally relevant (own r/s vs. stranger r/s)
Especially when they are highly committed
(McNulty, 2014) Partners of spouses who reported being more/less likely to express forgiveness reported…
Acts of psychological and physical aggression that remained stable/decreased over those 4 years
(Rigetti & Visserman, 2017) Low self-esteem is related to… and this association is mediated by…
Greater regret of past sacrifices
Mediated by perceived support
(Simpson, 2007) What are the two cognitive processes activated by trust-relevant situations?
1) Feelings of vulnerability
2) Expectations of how the partner is likely to behave across time, particularly in strain-test situations
(Simpson, 2007) What is a trust situation?
Trust situations: Partners can repeatedly make or fail to make mutually beneficial decisions
(Simpson, 2007) What is a strain-test situation?
Strain-test situations: Partners can demonstrate or fail to demonstrate their willingness to make personal sacrifices for the good of the partner or r/s
(Larson & Sbarra, 2015) Participants in the measurement-intensive condition reported…
Larger decreases in self-concept disturbance (mediator)
Reductions in self-reported loneliness, break-up related emotional intrusion, and first-person plural words
(Spielmann et al, 2015) Fear of being single predicted…
Greater feelings of love and longing for ex-partners