Love and Relationships Flashcards

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three factors for love

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intimacy, passion, commitment

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being in a close relationship –> better health, longer life, etc.

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  • general statistics
  • doesn’t mean all relationships have these positive aspects
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elements of being in a relationship

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  • giving and receiving affection (touch; reduce stress)
  • provides people with support; sharing the workload of managing life
  • have someone present to help you deal with bad stuff and give you support
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The smell of a romantic partner: Effect on stress (Female)

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  • participate in Trier Social Stress Test
  • spend time smelling a t-shirt before and after
    (romantic partner, stranger, never worn)
  • stress levels measured at various times before and after
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Trier Social Stress Test

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  • require participants to make interview-style presentation, then surprise mental arithmetic test
  • in front of interview panel who do not give feedback or encouragement
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Study Results:

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  • participants who smelled the t-shirt of their romantic partner, they experienced less anticipatory stress before, and their stress levels went down more quickly after
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The smell of a romantic partner: Effect on sleep (Male and Female)

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  • 4 nights, sleep alone in a bed, using a t-shirt as a pillow cover
    (2 nights: romantic partner t-shirt)
    (other 2: control t-shirt)
  • sleep efficiency measured by actigraphy wristwatch
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Study Results:

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  • For men, they did not have significant differences between the control t-shirt and partner t-shirt
  • For women, they slept better on days where they slept with partner t-shirt
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Romantic Attraction: Passion

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  • how do we find someone attractive?
  • context matters!
  • contrast effect
  • the colour red
  • misattribution of arousal
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Contrast effect

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  • when attractive person is surrounded by even more attractive people, they will be seen as less attracted by comparison
  • after looking at photographs of highly attractive women, men rate their own female romantic partners less favourably
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The colour red

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  • people (typically women) who wear or use red colour are perceived to be more attractive
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The colour red: Does this effect replicate in other cultures?

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  • yes, in Burkina Faso
  • men given pictures of women in different coloured backgrounds
  • red background = more attractive
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13
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does red make men more attracted too?

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maybe (evidence is kinda mixed)

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14
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does red affect positive judgments more generally?

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no (no effect on likeability, etc.)

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15
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why does red have this effect on judgments of attractiveness?

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  • some evidence that women in red are perceived to be more receptive to romance
  • some evidence that men in red are perceived to have higher social status
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16
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are people aware of this effect on their pwn judgments?

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apparently not

17
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Misattribution of Arousal

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Arousing (stressful) event or activity –> physiological arousal + encounter attractive person –> misattribute existing arousal to attractive person –> increased romantic attraction

18
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Scary bridge Experiment

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  • men approached after crossing scary or boring bridge
  • controlled the gender of the experimenter
  • then, presented ambiguous image for them to explain in their own interpretation –> if the guy was sexually attracted to the experimenter, he may make up a sexual story
  • then, gave particiapnts their number to “give them the results of the experiment”
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Experiment results

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  • men had higher levels of sexual content in their description when the interviewer was female AND after crossing a scary bridge
  • men also called the experimenter more if they were female AND if they crossed the scary bridge