LOVE Flashcards
Sternberg triangular theory of love
- 3 components- intimacy, passion, commitment
- Love is a multidimensional component
- Depending on how these combine result in different forms of love
- Passion= infatuation
- Romantic love= passion+ intimacy
- Compassionate= intimacy + commitment
- Consummate love= intimacy + passion + commitment
- Sternberg produces a Triangular love scale (1997)- 45 component measure.
- Globally accurate
Proximity and attractiveness
- 1950s (Festinger et al., )- study on student housing- those who lived closer, started to develop increased interpersonal attraction.
Familiarity
- Moreland and Beach, 1992- the more familiar we are with each other the more likely to find each other attractive- number of visits (which makes you more familiar) linked to attractiveness
The mere exposure effect= repeated exposure to an object results in greater attraction to that object. However Norton et al., 2007- argued familiarity can be negative, as the more we know someone the more we learn things that are dissimilar to our views, so more to dislike
o Mere exposure research= study showed a weak effect for familiarity when 4 new women were introduced into a class of students. But found a strong and increasing effect across visits for attractiveness (Moreland and Beach, 1992)
Attitude similarity
- Newcomb 1961- those in rented accommodation, initially attracted due to proximity, but over time having compatible attitudes seemed more important; students with similar pre acquaintance attitudes became more attracted to one another
- Tidwell et al., (2013)- 187 undergrad students attended speed dating event and interacted with 12 members of the opposite sex each for 4 minutes. Found perceived, not actual, similarity significantly predicted romantic liking
o Clore 1976- ‘law of attraction’ based off consistent and reliable findings that attitude similarity predicts or maintains attraction. The law states that attraction towards a person bears a linear relationship to the actual proportion of similar attitudes shared with that person.
fear and love
- Capilano suspension bridge study (Dutton and Aron, 1974)-
- Condition A- ‘scary’ bridge
- Condition B- safe bridge
- A male approaches the bridge stopped half way by a female researcher- asked them to do a thematic apperception test (shown a women crying and asked them to write a story on what happened and also offered a phone call)
- In condition A – more romantic content in the story was written and more phone calls
- This may be as those on the scary bridge had more physical arousal which linked them to more attractiveness/ love ideas to the female researchers.