Life Calling Chapter 3 Quiz Flashcards
Who statedโฆ โA man is but the product of his thoughts . . . what he thinks, he becomes.โ
Mohandas Gandhi
Define a la carteโฆ
the option to order each dish offered on a menu
independently with a separate price
Define Characterโฆ
the moral and ethical quality of people demonstrated
in the actions taken in life consistent with the mind-set
they establish for their lives
Define Congruenceโฆ
quality of coinciding exactly when superimposed
Define Ethicalโฆ
being in accordance with the accepted principles of right and wrong that govern conduct
Define Menuโฆ
any list or set of items, activities, options, etc., from which to choose
Define Moralโฆ
of, pertaining to, or concerned with the principles or
rules of right conduct or the distinction between right
and wrong
What is life congruence?
the moral and ethical quality of people demonstrated in the actions taken in life consistent with the faith they establish for their lives.
When we donโt live in life congruence, we can end up in a condition that psychologists refer to asโฆ?
Cognitive dissonance
What is cognitive dissonance
โdisagreement within our mind.โ
-what our mind believes VS the other world will be made
up of how our mind dictates actions we take in our lives.
What does the incompatibility or disagreement within our minds often lead to?
invent new thoughts or beliefs
What is something we tend to do in our incompatibility?
we allow our actions to determine our beliefs instead of
the other way around.
way people attempt to deal with the disagreements within their
minds
They compartmentalize.
aka โmorals ร la carte.
How would your โmoral mealโ be like if you lived in congruence?
-one moral โmealโ
- consistent set of life guidelines that enables us to live
our lives in harmony with our personal credo
How would your โmoral mealโ be like if you lived in incongruence?
we choose our moral guidelines from the ร la carte menu with a different set of guidelines for each moral situation that arises in our lives.
The net effect of the ร la carte approach to life tends to lead us in what direction?
confusion
-away from life congruence and toward a life where we say one thing with our mouths and do something different with our actions.
-source of great confusion when it comes to finding
direction.