Life Calling 3 and 4 Flashcards

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Of, pertaining to, or concerned with the principles or rules of right conduct of the distinction between right and wrong

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Moral

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2
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Being in accordance with the accepted principles of right and wrong that govern conduct

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Ethical

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3
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The moral and ethical quality of people demonstrated in the actions taken in life consistent with the mind-set they establish for their lives

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Character

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4
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He said “A man is but the product of his thoughts …. what he thinks, he becomes.”

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Ghandi

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5
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When we don’t live in life congruence, we can end up in a condition that psychologists refer to as _______. (which is just an elaborate way of saying “disagreement within our mind.”)

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Cognitive dissonance

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Our life is _____ when the values we claim to believe or our lives equal the way we actually live our lives

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Congruent

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Our life is _____ when the values we claim to believe for our lives does NOT equal the way we actually live our lives

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Incongruent

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If the values of our life do NOT equal the way we actually live our lived, what are our only two options to make them equal ?

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Change our behavior

Change the values/principles of our life

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9
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When our values and actions are incompatible or in disagreement in our minds the text warns that “often leads to a strange condition.” What is that condition ?

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Leads to great concussion when it comes to finding direction. Because of this, the text states that “our minds often leads to a strange condition. Quite often the two incompatible ways of thinking become a driving force that compels our minds to acquire or invent new thoughts or beliefs to minimize the amount of disagreement between our beliefs and actions.”

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10
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How does James 1 describes the condition in the above-mentioned question ?

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Double-minded

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11
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The text states that another manner in which people a empt to deal with the disagreements within their minds is to have “morals à la carte” - what does this mean ?

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When you compartmentalize your morality. For instance, in one area of your life you will seek out God and His direction, while in another you feelings/emotions determine. Or saying one thing and doing another

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12
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If you answered that God created the world and everything in it, and you make your choices regarding character contrary to that belief structure, this will lead to _____ ?

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Disharmony

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13
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If we answer that we were created by God, we would seek what our life calling is within this existence and find _______ within that role

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Purpose

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14
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If we answer that we exist for ourselves or that there isn’t an overall meaning to our existence, our action would lead us down a path of ___________

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Purposelessness

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15
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If we believe that we have an eternal place in he universe, we pursue our life-caling in our relationship with God and find our _______ in trying to continually mature

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Significant

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16
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If we believe that this physical world is all that there is, than our life would seem to be totally ______ and live as though nothing really matters that much

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Insignificant

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17
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“What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if people claim to have faith but have no deeds? Can such faith save them ?”

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James 2:14

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18
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“Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.”

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Galatians 5:25

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19
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“Does the LORD delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices as much as in obeying the LORD? To obey is better than sacrifice, and to heed is better than the fat of rams.”

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1 Samuel 15:22

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20
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What is the three-fold congruence that the text advises to live in ?

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Words
Faith
Action

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21
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What does the text state will be the results if you choose NOT to live your life in the three-fold congruence ?

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Confusion - because you won’t know what path to follow in your life

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22
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The place in scripture that clearly describes the struggle related with a the attempt for such life congruency

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Romans 7:21-25

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23
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Our hope is in the deliverance from this struggle can come only through _______

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The saving grace of Jesus

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24
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Was commander by the prophet Samuel as being a man after God’s own heart, despite his struggle with sin

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David (Found in scripture in 1 Samuel 13:14)

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25
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The place in scripture that describes this person’s (David) struggle with sin

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Psalm 51

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26
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When we choose to surrender to Christ in our Life-calling, we will be able to ______ and ______ God’s will

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Test

Approve

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27
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What are the three ways God’s Will is described

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Good
Pleasing
Perfect

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28
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When we choose to follow the patterns of the world in pursuing our Life-Calling, what do we seek ?

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Our selfish interest

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29
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The place in scripture that contrast the perspective of pursuing God’s Will or the pattern of the world

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Romans 12

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30
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When your PRESENT condition is negative (sad, depressed, lonely, confused, etc.) what is the way to look at your PAST that leads toward maturity ?

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They will see it as an opportunity to take responsibility, learn from it and grow

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31
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When your PRESENT condition is negative (sad, depressed, lonely, confused, etc.) what is the way to look at your PAST that leads toward immaturity ?

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They will look back to place blame on why something caused them harm

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32
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This leadership curriculum states that Faith expresses your value of ________

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Reality

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33
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The Leadership curriculum states that Character expresses our value of _____

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Self

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34
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The Leadership curriculum states that Service expresses our value of ______

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Others

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35
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When we Love God, we are expressing the foundational value of _______

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Faith

36
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When we identify and sharpen our God-given gifts we are expressing the foundational value of _______

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Character

37
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When we seek after the calling God has given to our lives we are expressing the foundational value of ______

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Service

38
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Being able to understand all that is happening in a moment is recognizing what the _______ of the moment is

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Authority

39
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Who stated at the beginning of Chapter 4 “all men caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny …… I can never be what I ought to be until you are what you ought to be, and you can never be what you ought to be until I am what I ought to be.”

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Martin Luther King Jr.

40
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When we have an attitude of service, we _____ others around us in a spirit of

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Value

Community

41
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Service implies that our actions of character are carried out with a sense of ______ to others

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Responsibility

42
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The concept of compassionate concern teaches us that service is _____ - centered rather than ________ - centered

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Other

Self

43
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What is the concept known as the “fabric of society” and explain how character and service and function to support it ?

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That each of us belong to one another in the Body of Christ. Our lives have been created by God to live in the service of Him (by identifying and sharpening of gifts and call) and the service of others (by applying the needs of the age)

44
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Having a self-centered perspective towards the needs of others will result in the _______ and ________ and recognize that “but by the grace of God, there go I.”

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Assumption

Judgement

45
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Having a God-centered perspective towards the needs of others will allow you to have _______ and ________ and recognize that “but by the grace of God, there go I.”

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Humility

Empathy

46
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“What good it is, my brothers and sisters, if people claim to have faith but have no deeds? Cab such a faith save them ?”

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James 2:14

47
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“Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.”

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1 Peter 4:10

48
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“So in everything, do unto others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.”

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Matthew 7:12

49
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Where in scripture does our curriculum reference to state the following: “God created us with an intricate design in a fearful and wonderful manner that was part of his intent before we ever came into being. It follows, then that this intricate design is directly related to our Life Calling. The greater we can live in harmony with our design, the greater will be the fulfillment of purpose in our lives.”

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Psalm 139

50
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Which individual avoided the responsibility instead of engaging ?

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Religious leader

51
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Which individual engaged in a spirit of respect, community, concern, responsibility, and action despite their differences with the one in need ?

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Good Samaritan

52
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An exertion of energy, power, or force to accomplish a desired end

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Action

53
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A group sharing common characteristics, interests, and heritage

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Community

54
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A matter that engages a person’s close attention, deep interest, or significant care

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Concern

55
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A linking relationship and association that joins, unites, and binds us.

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Connection

56
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A feeling of appreciative, often deferential, regard and esteem

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Respect

57
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The noblest form of love carried out in life’s relationships

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Servanthood

58
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List the five elements of true compassionate service

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Respect 
Community
Concern
Responsibility 
Action
59
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When we attempt to understand a situation from another’s perspective, we are displaying ______

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Empathy

60
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When we seek to honor, rather then demean, those we serve our goal is _________

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Mutual edification

61
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What is the problem eighth concert of “I’ll give people respect when they show me respect ?”

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Primarily it will then become a question of who will “go first” and do so no matter what another does

62
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Explain the concept of serving others in a manner that we “don’t rob them of their dignity”

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Everyone has value in each situation, therefore we seek to lift (give a “hand up”) and include other rather than give them a “hand out” or tell them what to do

63
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When you see a need in society, God is revealing to you that have been _______ and ______ to fill that need

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Gifted

Called

64
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Mutual respect: when you ____ and _____ others …….

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Love

Accept

65
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……. you are NOT ______ them. (Respect)

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Judging

66
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Mutual trust: When you _____ and _____ from others ……..

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Listen

Learn

67
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……….. you are NOT _______ them (trust)

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Correcting

68
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Dignity: when you _______ and ____ with others ………

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Serve

Partner

69
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……….. you are NOT _______ them (dignity)

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Directing

70
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Is a mindset that you need to be taken care of or others who are in a difficult situation need to be taken care of

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Paternalistic

71
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Is a mindset where you and others seek to develop their gifts with the ability to care for oneself

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Sustainable

72
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What is the difference between “sharing the gospel” and “telling people about God”

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Primarily an attitude of acting like you’re an equal and have empathy over plight vs an attitude of superiority - you’re better than them and if they would just live like you then they would be fine

73
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______ is forced act of serving another person ………

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Servitude

74
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………. and it is carried out in our (forced)

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Body

75
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________ is the decided act of serving another person ……….

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Service

76
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……… and it is carried out in our ______ (decided)

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Mind

77
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_______ is the attitudinal act of serving another person ………

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Servant-hood

78
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……….. and it is carried out in our ______ (attitudinal)

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Spirit

79
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Explain what empathy means:

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When we attempt to understand a situation from another’s perspective

80
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Explain how a lack of empathy caused a break down in communication and relationship between Jason and Romero in the “Tale of Two Perspectives”.

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Jason was focused on “getting the job done” rather than on getting to know Romero and working together. Romero was focused on being grateful for the home that would benefit his family, rather than confronting Jason (Matthew 18) about being left out of the process.

81
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Explain how showing empathy could have led toward building a strong relationship between Jason and Romero in the “Tale of Two Perspectives”.

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if Jason would have taken the time to get to know Romero he could have not only built a lifetime friendship, but also created a system where many more could benefit from his professional knowledge. If Romero would have confronted Jason, it would have provided an opportunity for Jason to realize that God called him there to build relationships, not houses

82
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___________________ being answerable or accountable for something or someone within our ability, power, or control to care for

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Responsibility

83
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Which individual avoided the responsibility even after first contact?

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Political leader

84
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If you answered that God created the world and everything in it, and you make your choices regarding Character
within that belief structure, this will lead to _____?

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Harmony

85
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If we answer that we were Created by God, we would seek after what our life calling is within this existence
and find __________ within that role.

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Purpose