KAREN HORNEY Flashcards
placed far more emphasis on
SOCIAL FACTORS
Horney criticised Freudian theory on at least three accounts:
its rigidity toward new ideas,
its skewed view of feminine psychology
it’s over emphasis on biology and the pleasure principle.
Horney insisted that modern culture is too competitive and that competition leads to ….
hostility and feelings of isolation
All children need feelings of safety and security, but these can be gained only by love from parents. Unfortunately, parents often neglect, dominate, reject, or overindulge their children, conditions that lead to the child’s feelings of,…..
BASIC HOSTILITY TOWARDS PARENTS
Neurotic conflict stems largely from
CHILDHOOD TRAUMAS
If children repress feelings of basic hostility, they will develop feelings of insecurity and a pervasive sense of apprehension called
BASIC ANXIETY
People can protect themselves from basic anxiety through a number of protective devices:
Affection
Submissiveness
Power, prestige,or possession
Withdrawal.
In their quest for affection and approval, neurotics attempt indiscriminately to please others. They try to live up to the expectations of others, tend to dread self-assertion, and are quite uncomfortable with the hostility of others as well as the hostile feelings within themselves.
FOR AFFECTION AND APPROVAL
This need includes an overvaluation of love and a dread of being alone or deserted. Horney’s ownlife story reveals a strong need to relate to a great man, and she had a series of such relationships during her adult life.
FOR A POWERFUL PARTNER
Neurotic Frequently strive to remain inconspicuous, to take second place, and to be content with very little. They downgrade their own abilities and dread making demands on others.
TO RESTRICT ONE’S LIFE WITHIN NARROW BORDERS
Power and affection are perhaps the two greatest neurotic needs. The need for power is usually combined with the needs for prestige and possession and manifests itself as the need to control others and to avoid feelings of weakness or stupidity.
FOR POWER
Neurotics frequently evaluate others on the basis of how they can be used or exploited, but at the same time, they fear being exploited by others.
TO EXPLOIT OTHERS
Some people combat basic anxiety by trying to be first, to be important, or to attract attention to themselves.
FOR SOCIAL RECOGNITION OR PRESTIGE
Neurotics have a need to beadmired for what they are rather than for what they possess. Their inflatedself-esteem must be continually fed by the admiration and approval of others.
FOR PERSONAL ADMIRATION
Neurotics often have a strong drive to be the best—the best salesperson, the best bowler,the best lover. They must defeat other people in order to confirm their superiority.
FOR AMBITION AND PERSONAL ACHIEVEMENT