Interaction Management Flashcards
Dance of conversation
Listening
Self-monitoring
Responding
Turn-exchanging
Turn-exchanging skills
Appropriate nr of turns
Appropriate length of turns
Turn-exchanging cues
Turn-exchanging cues
SPEAKER: Turn maintaining Turn yielding LISTENER Turn requesting Turn denying Back channeling (comm info without assuming speaker role)
Listening process
Hearing Attending Understanding Remembering Evaluating Responding
Factors hindering hearing
Physiological hearing difficulties
Auditory fatigue
Physical noise
Basic listening modes (ATTENDING)
CAP
Competitive/Combative = Promote own view & pretend to listen Active/Reflective = Interested & actively check understanding Passive/Attentive = Interested & passively attentive (assume understanding)
Active listening techniques (UNDERSTANDING)
Ask q's to clarify Paraphrase to ensure understanding Have empathy See from their perspective Dont assume you know
Types of remembering
SHORT-TERM = 5 info items at a time & long enough to respond LONG-TERM = Committed to memory & significant
Fact
Accuracy can be verified
Inference
Opinion
Inference with supporting statement
Based on assumption
Reasons for ineffective listening
PPORNHAJE
PSEUDOLISTENING = Pretending
PREFERENCE TO SPEAK
OVERLOAD = Too many messages
RAPID THOUGHT PROCESSES = Process info 4X faster = Boredom
NOISE = Interferes/distorts
HABITS = Short attention span
ASSIMILATION = Reconstruct messages to reflect own attitudes, beliefs, etc.
JUDGEMENT = Superficial factors affect interpretation
EMOTIONS = Avoid listening, feel threatened & believe they are right
Advantages of listening
Increase knowledge Increase confidence Decrease stress Feel comfortable Help others with problems Builds trust Increased teamwork
Inappropriate responses
IRRELEVANT = Changes subject
INCONGRUOUS = Verbal & nonverbal messages dont match
INTERRUPTING
TANGENTIAL = Touches on subject & digresses
JUDGMENTAL = No empathy, shuts down & damaging
UNSUPPORTIVE
Appropriate responses
PARAPHRASING = Expressing meaning in diff words for clarification INTERPRETIVE = Look from other POV & alternative explanations are plausible QUESTIONING = Clarify facts SUPPORTIVE = Soothe & validate feelings