Exam 3 - Chapter 9 Flashcards
peers; people naturally separate into these groups
people of about the same age or maturity level; for many, the perception of peers is most important
What factors contribute to interactions with peers?
characteristics, environment, context; parent management and presence (Are your parents around? Who are they allowing you to spend extra time with?)
How does social media influence relationships? (5 ways)
- frequency/immediacy of experiences
- magnifies experiences and demands
- qualitative changes in interactions
- creates new opportunities for compensatory behaviors
- creating completely novel behaviors
COVID-19 negatively impacted peer relations by
restricting social interactions; more pronounced in girls than boys
Peer relationships differ by individual because of
differences in personality (shyness predicts lower emotional stability because of unpleasant interactions), openness to peer influence, and group status compared to other groups
Are peers necessary?
good peer relationships might be needed for healthy social development
social isolation is linked to
delinquency, problem drinking, depression, and academic difficulties
How are peer relations positive? Negative?
explore fairness and justice, learn sensitivity; OR linked to drug use, delinquency, depression, sexual activity, and self-injury (college students 10x more likely to drink heavily with risky social networks)
How do parents impact peer relations?
their own friends, neighborhood friends, church, school, attachment (can help or harm), etc.
Peer Pressure
a form of (antisocial) conformity that peaks in 8th-9th grade; usually when the kid isn’t certain about the situation or when with people with perceived higher status
peer statuses
sociometric status, popular (strong motivator), average, neglected, rejected, and controversial
sociometric status
most liked/dislike kids
popular status
lots of nominations for best; rarely disliked
average status
average +/- nominations
neglected status
not disliked, but not very many “best friend” nominations
rejected status
actively disliked and few best friend nominations
controversial status
several best friend, nominations and several dislikes; sometimes it means they’re liked because they have lots of resources or fun things
What makes a popular kid popular?
give reinforcements (ex. compliments), listens carefully to you, has open lines of communication, happy, controls negative emotions, cares about others - enthusiasm and concern; self confident, but not conceited
What is true about boys who are rejected and aggressive?
social relationships are hard; high impulsivity makes sustained attention harder; emotionally reactive; weaker social skills (being a good friend is hard for them)
social cognition and emotion
thoughts about social matters; you have more social knowledge in adolescence; there is evidence linking social intelligence to popularity
5 Steps in processing social information (Dodge)
- decode social cues
- interpret them
- look at options of response
- choose best response
- actually respond
emotion regulation is positive and linked to popular status, rejected kids are
moody and emotional - not as good at emotion regulation
Kids with negative peer status are not good at ____________
adaptive planning
conglomerate strategies (or coaching)
a combination of techniques to improve social skills; involves modeling, discussion about social skills, and reinforcement for appropriate social skills; sometimes these are effective, but less so for kids who are already rejected (the damage is done)
friendship
mutual companionship with support and intimacy; kids prefer smaller, closer-knit groups by adolescence; 6th graders without friends were less prosocial and had lower grades
Sullivan theory of friendship
psychological well-being focuses on the extent to which your social needs are being met - your friends primarily fill those needs; intimacy with friends needs to get stronger in adolescence (you need close friends)
Hartup on friendship
friends are cognitive and social resources; positive friends = better academics, less drug abuse, more physical activity; no friends = depression, no besties, few interactions, rejection
friendship in emerging adulthood
several similarities to adolescence; one difference - close relationships are more integrated and similar; in college, satisfaction and commitment decrease
intimacy in friendship
self-disclosure, or sharing of private thoughts; similarity in age, sex, and ethnicity is also important (homophily - associating with similar others)
homophily
associating with similar others
Same- sex friendships
More common in early adolescence; more common for girls, but linked to earlier sexual intercourse, alcohol use, and delinquency
Loneliness (different from wanting solitude)
Experienced by everyone; linked to life transitions
How do groups change?
Adolescents are more formal and have many types of members; more mixed-sex
Cliques
Smaller; avg 5-6; usually same sex and similar ag; often linked to clubs or sports
Crowds
Larger and less personal groups; membership usually linked to reputation; usually fade out in later adolescence; shared activities