Exam 2 Flashcards

1
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culturally bound

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Meanings are…

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2
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messages expressed by nonlinguistic means

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Nonverbal Communication

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3
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direct verbal counterpart (ex. peace sign)

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Emblems

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4
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cues that help control verbal interaction (ex. shushing someone)

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Regulators

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5
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study of the eyes in communication

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Oculesics

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6
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study of body movement (posture, gestures)

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Kinesics

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7
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movement of the hands and arms

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Gestures

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8
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fidgeting

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Manipulators

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9
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movement to accentuate speech (“this big”)

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Illustrators

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10
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study of touch

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Haptics

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11
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the way a message is spoken/vocal. Nonverbal (ex. tone)

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Paralanguage

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12
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filler words

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Disfluencies

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13
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study of space

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Proxemics

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14
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touch to 18 inches

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Intimate Distance

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15
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18 inches to 4 feet

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Personal Distance

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16
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4 feet to 12 feet

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Social Distance

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17
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12 feet and beyond

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Public Distance

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18
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extension of one’s physical being/stationary space

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Territory

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19
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study of time

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Chronemics

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20
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study of smell

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Olfactics

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21
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repeat, substitute, regulate, complement, accent, deceive, contradict

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Nonverbal Functions

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22
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Other types of nonverbals:

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facial expressions, clothing, silence/pauses

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23
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Nonverbal communication accounts for ___ % of total meaning of communication

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65 - 93

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24
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conveys sense of urgency

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Pitch or Volume

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25
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conveys quality of voice

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Tone

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26
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Expectancy Violations Theory

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if communicative norms are violated, it may be perceived favorably or unfavorably

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27
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places can be judged by the set up of a room or the objects in it

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Physical Environment

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28
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it exists, nonverbal skills are a necessity, all behavior has communicative value, it is culturally bound, it is primarily relational, and it is ambiguous

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Nonverbal Characteristics/Principles

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29
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Verbal = single channel

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Nonverbal = multiple channels

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30
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Verbal = clear meaning

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Nonverbal = ambiguous meaning

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31
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Verbal = deliberate

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Nonverbal = unconscious

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32
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Does verbal or nonverbal communication have a greater impact?

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Nonverbal

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33
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an active process of receiving stimuli consisting of 5 stages

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Listening

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34
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What are the 5 stages of listening (HAURR)

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Hearing, attending, understanding, responding, remembering

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35
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the process in which sound waves strike the eardrum and cause vibrations that are transmitted to the brain

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Hearing

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36
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the psychological process of selection, choosing what to listen to

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Attending

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37
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the process of making sense of a message

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Understanding

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38
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giving observable feedback to the speaker

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Responding

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39
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the ability to recall information. Hardest stage in the listening process

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Remembering

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40
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After first hearing, ___% of info is remembered, after 8 hours only ___%, and after 2 months only ___% is remembered

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50%, 35%, 25%

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41
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giving careful and thoughtful attention and responses to the speaker

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Mindful Listening

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42
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reacting automatically and routinely, without much mental investment

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Mindless Listening

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43
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the degree of congruence between what a listener understands and what the sender intended

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Listening Fidelity

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44
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the extent to which you focus on feeling what the speaker is feeling

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Empathic-Objective Listening

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45
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the extent to which you accept and support the speaker

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Nonjudgmental-Critical Listening

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46
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the extent to which you focus on the obvious surface meanings

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Surface-Depth Listening

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47
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the extent to which you reflect back on what you think the speaker means in content and feeling

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Active-Inactive Listening

48
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responses a listener makes to a speaker that you are listening

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Back-Channeling Cues

49
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staying attentive and nonverbally responsive without offering any verbal feedback

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Silent Listening

50
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pretending to listen

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Pseudo Listening

51
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waiting to speak to steal the stage

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Stage Hogging

52
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respond only to messages that are of value (to you)

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Selective Listening

53
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ignoring specific messages (ex. politics)

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Insulated Listening

54
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taking speaker’s comments as an attack

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Defensive Listening

55
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collecting messages to use against the speaker

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Ambushing

56
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taking speaker’s comments at face value

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Insensitive Listening

57
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restating what you believe to be the speaker’s thoughts and feelings and inviting clarification

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Paraphrase

58
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a response style you use when you want to show that you identify with the speaker

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Empathizing

59
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a response style you use when you want to show your solidarity with the speaker

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Supporting

60
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a response style you use when you offer an interpretation of a speaker’s message

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Analyzing

61
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a response style you use when you appraise the speaker’s thoughts or behaviors

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Evaluating

62
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a response style you use when you provide a solution

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Advising

63
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___ and ___ play a big part in how people respond

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Context and gender

64
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Keys to informational listening

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talk less, get rid of distractions, don’t judge prematurely, look for key ideas, ask sincere questions, use aids, paraphrase

65
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Examples of situational obstacles to listening:

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message overload (too many things at once), message complexity (doesn’t make sense), external noise

66
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hearing problems, lack of training, preoccupation, rapid thought, prejudgements, lack of effort, faulty assumptions, media influence

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Examples of internal obstacles to listening:

67
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difficulty physically hearing

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Hearing problems

68
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no training given on how to listen

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Lack of Training

69
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thinking about other stuff while the person is talking

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Preoccupation

70
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processing information faster than the person is speaking, so you tune them out

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Rapid Thought

71
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you think you know what they are going to say, so you prejudge

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Prejudgments

72
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incorrect assumptions about communication (ex. talking has more advantages than listening)

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Faulty assumptions

73
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creates poor listening habits, keeps us distracted

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Media Influence

74
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emotional/social tone of a relationship

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Climate

75
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convey value, respect (endorsement, acknowledgement, recognition)

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Confirming Message

76
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most basic confirming message

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Recognition

77
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engages (talk and listen) the other

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Acknowledgement

78
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strongest level/type of confirming message

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Endorsement

79
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shows a lack of respect or regard (verbal abuse, interrupting, ambiguous, incongruous, irrelevant, impersonal, impervious)

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Disconfirming Message

80
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name calling, most obvious type of disconfirming message

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Verbal Abuse

81
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stage hogging

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Interrupting

82
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subject to many meanings/unclear

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Ambiguous

83
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off topic

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Irrelevant

84
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has 2 messages that appear to deny/contradict each other

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Incongruous

85
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ignore

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Impervious

86
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judging (“You don’t know what you’re talking about”)

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Evaluation

87
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free from bias (“I don’t understand how you came up with that idea”)

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Description

88
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cannot be wrong (“That will never work”)

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Certainty

89
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confident in decision but may change based on new info (“I think you’ll run into problems with that approach”)

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Provisional

90
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manipulating, planned (“What are you doing Tuesday after class?”)

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Strategy

91
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your message is open and honest (“I have a couch I need to move Tuesday afternoon. Can you give me a hand?”)

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Spontaneity

92
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overpower the other (“You need to stay out of the house for the 2 hours so you don’t mess it up”)

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Control

93
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focus on issue not controlling the other (“I’m expecting Sam’s parents over soon. Can we work out a way to keep the place clean?”)

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Problem Orientation

94
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no feeling or investment (“That’s what happens when you don’t plan properly”)

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Neutrality

95
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attempts to communicate understanding of feeling/emotion (“Ouch – looks like this didn’t turn out the way you expected”)

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Empathy

96
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better than the other (“You don’t know what you’re talking about”)

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Superiority

97
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equal to the other (“I see it a different way”)

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Equality

98
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Seek more information by asking specifics, guess, paraphrasing or asking what the critic wants

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How to respond nondefensively to criticism

99
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Don’t have to agree with entire message necessarily, but with the critic’s perception and critic’s rights

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How to agree with facts to criticism

100
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expressed struggle between at least 2 interdependent parties who perceive incompatible goals, scarce rewards, and interference from the other party in achieving their goals

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Conflict

101
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do not engage/avoid

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Avoidance

102
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give in to the other party

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Accommodation

103
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see exchange as a win/lose game. Must win

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Competition

104
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give up to gain. One person has to lose something

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Compromise

105
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all parties win (win/win). Ask what both parties want, then go from there

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Collaboration

106
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includes avoidance and/or accommodation

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Nonassertive Behavior

107
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similar to competitive

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Direct Aggression

108
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is aggression but covert (hidden)

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Passive Aggression

109
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hinting or asking for an intermediary

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Indirect Communication

110
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includes compromise and/or collaboration

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Assertion

111
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prior conditions, frustration awareness, active conflict, resolution, aftermath

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The Stages of Conflict

112
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stage is set for conflict, something has happened but both parties might not know it yet

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Prior Conditions

113
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you know you’re mad

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Frustration Awareness

114
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when frustration is communicated to the other party

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Active Conflict

115
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when conflict is resolved

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Resolution

116
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what the relationship looks like after resolution. May result in more conflict

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Aftermath

117
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Conflict can’t begin before it has been ____.

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expressed