Effective comm and conflict resolution (exam 1) Flashcards
feeling what the other person is feeling and seeing the situation as he/she sees it
empathy
all people in the process are =
equality
feelings and thoughts stated directly and honestly
openness
conflict is viewed as +
positiveness
requires flexibility and a willingness to change personal opinions/positions
supportiveness
1 person uses passive behaviors and withdraws from the conflict; neither person can pursue goals
avoidance
1 person puts aside their goals in order to satisfy the other persons desires
accommodation
1 person achieves their own goals at the expense of the other person
force
both people give up something to experience partial goal attainment
compromise
both people actively try to find solutions that will satisfy them both
collaboration
steps to resolve verbal conflict?
recognize ones own conflict resolution style, engage in active listening, and all people involved must view their conflict as a problem to be solved mutually
+ comm?
openness
empathy
supportiveness
positiveness
equality
developing trust (keep promises)
using “I” messages
good listening habits?
Give undivided attention to the sender
Provide feedback by rephrasing the message in the receivers’ own words
Give attention to positioning, so that sender and receiver are facing each other and can make eye contact
Note nonverbal messages such as body language
Finish listening before you begin speaking
Active listening greatly improves the likelihood that the correct message will be received.