Domestic Relations Flashcards
Ante-nuptial agreements–are they valid?
Yes. In VA, valid, but need to comply w/ SOF signed by parties and in writing AND parties must have subsequently married to make agreement valid.
If you have an ante-nuptial agreement, what challenges may be brought if one of the party wants to set aside the agreement after parties are married?
Usually it’s the poorer party that challenges. Two ways:
1) Agreement not entered into voluntarily i.e. physical threats, time issues, one party represented and other isn’t, respective bargaining power.
2) K is unconscionable. Substantively unfair terms that shock conscience and PLUS FACTOR: no disclosure of assets, knowledge of assets, or waiver of disclosure.
Can a pre-nup be modified?
New amendment in writing signed by both parties.
How do you get married?
Ceremonial marriage, which requires:
1) License
2) Go through a ceremony w/ officiant and an exchange of promises.
Why the license requirement for marriage?
Allows an official to ensure parties have capacity to marry. Requirements:
1) get from county clerk
2) good for 60 days
Who is a proper officiant?
Clergyman or any person authorized to administer oaths or any other person appointed by courts.
What if there is a defect in license or officiant status?
If it’s an honest error, you are still married.
What promises must be exchanged?
No magic words. You only have to promise to accept the new legal status.
What is a common law marriage?
Not accepted in VA, but if couple enters into valid CL marriage in a place where it’s allowed, the marriage is portable.
Two ways to get out of marriage
1) Annulment
2) Divorce
* *Difference: annulment based on grounds that pre-date the marriage.
What are the two kinds of annulment?
Some grounds void the marriage and others make it voidable.
1) If marriage is void, you aren’t married. But you can get an optional annulment for clarity AND to resolve collateral issues. If marriage is voidable, you’re married until you get annulment.
2) A ground that makes marriage void can’t be waived; voidable is waivable.
What are grounds that make marriage void?
1) bigamy
2) 1 party is underage 18–if 16+, you can get married w/ 1 parent’s consent; if under 16, can get married w/ consent and woman pregnant
3) incest–can’t marry ancestors, descendants, siblings (regardless of adoption), or lineal relatives up or down a generation (aunt/niece).
4) same-sex, but this is in a state of flux.
What grounds make a marriage voidable?
1) duress–must marry of own free will; waive this ground if continue to live w/ and have sex w/ spouse
2) mental incapacity at time of marriage–need to litigate this via guardian if dementia,
3) incurable impotency–if you can’t have sex, can’t get married, but if intimate before wedding night, can’t assert this ground
4) fraud–prior to marriage 1 party misrepresents or conceals from other facts that “go to an essential aspect of marriage” i.e. discretion.
What is automatically a grounds for fraud?
1) not disclosing a felony conviction
2) carrying another man’s child or impregnating another woman w/in 10 mos. at time of marriage
3) previous work as a prostitute
* *Judges have added misrepresentation concerning religion, lying about procreation or sex, but can argue these. Lying about money, property, or social status not grounds for annulment.
Where do you go to get a divorce?
Chancery side of circuit court. Divorce is an equitable remedy. Go to family court if exists.
When does court have SMJ over divorce?
At least one spouse is domiciled in VA and has been a resident for 6 mos. Doesn’t matter that other spouse has no contact w/ VA.
Why doesn’t there need to be PJ over both spouses?
Marriage is treated as though it is in rem i.e. physically present wherever spouses are.
What remedies are available if there is no PJ over one spouse?
Court can dissolve marriage but no collateral remedies.
What venue is appropriate for divorce cases?
Preferred venues are:
1) last place where spouses lived together and had a home
2) wherever D lives if lives in state
3) wherever P lives if D doesn’t live in state
* *If no one objects, it doesn’t matter that you get this wrong.
What are the two kinds of divorce?
Divorce a mensa et thoro: legal separation that leaves the marriage intact.
Divorce a vinculo matrimonii: legal divorce that ends the marriage.
What are the fault based grounds for divorce in VA?
1) Adultery, sodomy, or buggery w/ someone other that his spouse. Must prove by clear and convincing evidence w/in 5 years of adultery.
2) Spouse convicted of felony w/ greater than 1 year sentence.
3) Cruelty or Dessertion
What is cruelty?
1) Domestic violence
2) Mental cruelty–persistent course of conduct that endangers life or health or makes life unbearable. This is subjective.
What is dessertion?
Unjustified termination of marital cohabitation for at least 1 year. If you move out because of violence, not a problem.
What are defenses to fault based divorce?
1) Condonation: knowledge of misconduct followed by forgiveness followed by resumption of sexual relations. Wrongdoer must give up the bad conduct.
2) Connivance: corrupt consent (like entrapment). P spouse lured D spouse into committing misconduct.
3) Recrimination: claim by D spouse that P spouse is committing misconduct too.
What is no fault divorce?
If both parties want to divorce and they have no kids, they must enter into separation agreement and live separate and apart for 6 mos.
If only one party wants a divorce or if both want divorce but there are kids, they have to live separate and apart for one year, but no separation agreement needed.
In the separation period of a no fault divorce, what restarts the clock?
Can’t have sex w/ spouse or it resets the clock.
Can’t have sex w/ others or it’s adultery.
Why get a legal separation rather than a divorce?
1) Practical considerations–health insurance, tax benefits, etc.
2) Moral considerations i.e. marriage is forever.
Grounds for divorce a mensa et thoro?
1) Cruelty and reasonable apprehension of bodily harm.
2) Dessertion for any period of time.
* *This can be revoked or you can petition court to give a divorce a vinculo matrimonii after a certain period.**