Communication, Coaching and Conflict Management (7) Flashcards
What is true communication
True communication takes place only when all parties understand the message (information) from the same perspective (meaning)
The Oral Message-Sending Process
- Develop rapport
- State your communication purpose
- Transmit your message
- Check the receiver’s understanding
- Ask direct questions and/or use paraphrasing
- Get a commitment and follow-up
Written communication and writing tips
- Set an objective
- Make an outline
- Put the outline into written form
- First para states the purpose
- Second para support the purpose
- Third para summarizes the major points and clearly states the action
The Message-Receiving Process
- Listening
○ Avoiding distractions
○ Watching non-verbal cues - Analyzing
○ Thinking
○ Waiting to evaluate until after listening - Checking understanding
○ Paraphrase
○ Watching non-verbal cues
Feedback
Is the process of verifying messages and determining if objectives are being met
Giving and receiving feedback must be an ongoing process to be effective
Forms of feedback
Questioning
Paraphrasing
Allowing comments and suggestions
Reasons why people Do Not Ask Questions
⦿ Receivers feel ignorant
⦿ Receivers are ignorant
⦿ Receivers are reluctant to point out the sender’s ignorance
⦿ Receivers have cultural barriers
How to Get Feedback on Messages
- Be open to feedback
- Be aware of non-verbal communication
- Ask questions
- Use paraphrasing
360-Degree Multirater Feedback
Is based on receiving performance evaluations from many people
- Managers
- Peers
- Subordinates
- People from outside the organization
Coaching
- Is the process of giving motivational feedback to maintain and improve performance
- Is designed to maximize employee strengths and minimize weaknesses
- Is an important part of leadership development
Coaching Feedback
- Is based on a good, supportive r/s
- Is specific and descriptive
- Is not judgemental criticism
Job Instructional Training Steps
- Trainee receives preparation
- Trainer presents the task
- Trainee performs the task
- Trainer follow up
Performance and Attribution Theory
Explains the process managers use in determining reasons for effective or ineffective performance and deciding what to do about it.
> The manager tries to determine the cause of performance
> The manager selects a corrective action to take
> Managers tend to attribute the cause of poor performance by certain employees to internal reasons within the employees’ control
> Managers tend to attribute the cause of poor performance by certain employees to external reasons (resources) beyond the employees’ control
Performance Formula
Explains the performance as a function of ability, motivation, and resources.
If ability is the problem > provide training
If motivation is the problem > use motivational techniques
If resources if the problem > leader needs to acquire the resources
The Coaching Model
- Describe current performance
- Describe desired performance
- Get a commitment to the change
- Follow up