Close Relationships Flashcards

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how did social bonds aid survival?

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protected against predators, especially for the young

procuring food

reproducing

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why do we form social bonds?

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lack causes = depression, loneliness, anger, aggressiveness

necessary for survival

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interpersonal attraction

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we often have a gut reaction to a person

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what are the key factors associated with attraction?

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physical factors:
- appearance
- proximity

psychological factors:
- attitude similarity
- mutual liking

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Hatfield et al - physical appearance study

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  • asked to complete range of personality tests, before being matched for a social dance
  • physical attractiveness was rated
  • asked to rate their partner, and would they like to go on a second date
  • found the largest predictor of going on second date was attraction
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the ‘beautiful is good effect’ - studies

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more likely to get dates - Berscheid et al 1971

more likely to get better marks at uni - Mandy and Sigall 1974

more likely to be successful in job interview - Dipboye et al 1977

likely to earn more money - Frieze et al 1991

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what is attractive?

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  • prototypical (average) faces seem to be most attractive (Halberstadt et al 2005)
  • idea is that prototypical faces are easier to process, because they are more similar to the face you imagine
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what are the evolutionary perspectives on attractiveness?

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  • a prototypical face is a marker of biological quality (more diverse gene pool, stronger mate, more fertile, etc)
  • people also like other symmetrical things, such as cars, dogs, birds, etc
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what are the gender differences in attraction

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research shows that women focus more on status, and men focus more on youth and beauty

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what is the matching phenomenon?

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  • in general, people tend to be attracted to others who are of a similar attractiveness to themselves
  • matched couples tend to have longer lasting relationships
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what is the importance of familiarity and proximity?

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  • finding someone familiar or close to them can facilitate attraction
  • people prefer faces that look like their own (Little and Perrett, 2002)
  • we are often friends with our neighbours that live closest to us
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Dorm study - Festinger, Schachter and Back 1950)

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  • asked 300 MIT dorm residents to list closest friends
  • looked at where friends lived within dorm
  • one door away: 41% chance being listed as close friend
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what is the mere exposure effect? - Zajonc 1968, 2001)

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  • at first, new things make us uncomfortable
  • the more we are exposed to things, the more they become familiar
  • if there is no harm, familiarity -> liking
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positive and negative exposure

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when an initial reaction is negative, repeated exposure will decrease liking and increase disliking

proximity can sometimes lead to hostility (e.g., domestic violence)

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what is excitation transfer (study by Dutton and Aron 1974)

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  • arousal felt by crossing shaky bridge was transferred to female experimenter (male participant more attracted to female experimenter)
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psychological determinants of attraction

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  • some people prefer to be alone (Craig et al 1999)
  • fear of death automatically increases affiliation (Wisman & Koole 2003)
  • being in troublesome situations (Schachter, 1959)
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what is the balance theory

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  • people compare their attitudes with others and reach balance if there is similarity
  • balance enhances positive feelings and attraction
  • attitude dissimilarity causes imbalance

people with more similar personalities, interpersonal and communication skills are more compatible

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why does it matter that people have similar attitudes to ours?

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social comparison
- one way to evaluate validity of own beliefs is to compare them to others

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how does culture affect attraction

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  • many aspects of attraction appear universal
  • however, people generally prefer to date within their own ethnic group (Liu et al 1995)
  • social factors such as family approval are also important determinants of attraction
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theory of attraction - social exchange theory

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economic approach based on relationship costs and rewards

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theory of attraction - equity theory

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outcomes need to be proportionate to contributions

people want fairness

people are most happy in equitable relationships

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theory of attraction - reinforcement

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we like people who are associated with positive feelings, even if they have nothing to do with the reward

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reciprocity

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liking begets liking/mutual exchange

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different types of relationships (exchange and communal)

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exchange: more frequent in broader society, increases societal progress and wealth

communal: more frequent in close intimate relationships, more desirable, healthier and mature

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what is the reinforcement affect model
people are liked or disliked depending on their association with positive or negative feelings
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what are the two types of love
passionate love companionate love
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what is Sternberg's theory of love (1988)
passion = emotional state with high bodily arousal intimacy = feelings of closeness, mutual understanding and concern commitment = conscious decision, remains conscious
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attachment and bonding
Harlow's monkeys Ainsworth's strange situation (secure, insecure avoidant, insecure resistant/anxious) Bowlby's observation of interaction between infant and mother
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Rusbult's investment model of commitment
- people weigh up the rewards, costs and comparisons - may explain why people stay in abusive relationships - satisfaction, lack of alternatives, investments
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what is the physical attractiveness stereotype
tendency for people to assume that attractive people also have other desirable traits