Chapter 9 Final Flashcards
Only popular since the 1920s
dating
Today dating is defined as
more casual than formal, social activity, companionship, status, intimacy and sexual exploration
which states that women and men behave in ways that will maximize the survival of their genes
evolutionary theory
suggest that societies emphasis on a distinct division of labor b/w the sexes will directly be linked to sex diff. in mate selection
Social role theory
argues that social norms dictate what is desirable in a mate
social construction theory
a scheme or a cognitive representation of a sequence of events
(male-active/female-reactive)
Script
male-intiating the date/female-accepts or rejects
women and men agree on the most important characteristic in a mate:
kind, understanding, honest, trustworthy, sense of humor, and open and expressive
There are consistent diff. on traits that are relatively unimportant in choosing a mate:
men-physical attractiveness more heavily
women-economic resources more heavily than do men
——— influences mate preferences.
the nature of the relationship
sex diff are more likely to appear when the relationship is
less serious; men’s women’s preferences is less serious; men’s and women’s preferences are most similar in serious relationships
Adolescence dating –% of 12-17 tr olds date reg
57%
SIngle Adults dating
Less than –% dating
–% been on a date in past 6 months
Reasons to date
(59%m, 68%w)=
(12%m, 14%w)=
50%
25%
companionship
looking for a spouse
Physical attractiveness over the yrs has
become more important for both males and females (so the gender diff is now small)
in figure 9.4 women are seen to be the “——–”—- which means they valued almost all of the traits more than men did.
The one expectation that me had over women was—–
What was the biggest diff for women?
conclusion: the difference comes from ——– = women do not have as high of ———— that they will get this in a relationship
TF agreeing with what?
“choosier” sex
physical attractiveness
success
expectations
of an expectation
Evolutionary psych.
referring to gender diff in sexuality: results from meta-analysis
Approval for casual sex (d=.81)
evaluation of male and female beh. according to different standards; used specifically to refer to holding more conservative, restrictive attitudes toward female sexuality
double standard
i.e. it is more acceptable for a man than a women to engage in premarital sex
double standard
be sexy but do not be sexual, this is an example of
a double standard
courtship is traditional marriage
common 1920s-1960
women responsible for maintaining relationship
Marriage: companionship blueprint
- expression of personal freedom (even in committed relationships)
- allows for division of labor in the marr.
- can make a really dependent relationship in conversation
- can lead to partners who do not have adequate commitment of intimacy
Marriage: Independence blueprint:-arose during 1960s