Chapter 9 - Attraction and Relationships Flashcards
Including textbook chapter 9 and lecture PP
Social psychologist Arthur Aron argues that a central human motivation is ______?
-self expansion
Define self-expansion.
-overlapping with another person, accessing their experiences and knowledge
One of the simplest determinants of interpersonal attraction is ___________?
-proximity
Define the propinquity effect?
-finding that the more we see and interact with people, the more likely they are to become our friends
Briefly describe the study conducted in a housing complex for married students at MIT. What was the take away message? (2)
-looked at couples friends in an apartment building and found those that were closest tended to report liking each other more
-showing the propinquity effect
Festinger and colleagues demonstrated that attraction and propinquity rely not only on ________, but also on the more psychological ___________?
-actual physical distance; functional distance
Define functional distance
-architecture that forces you to cross paths more with certain people than others
Propinquity works because of _______, or the ____________.
-familiarity; mere exposure effect
Define mere exposure effect
-finding that the more exposure we have to a stimulus, the more we like it
In a study, they had confederates sit in university classes and not interact with anyone. Did people still experience the mere exposure effect?
-yes, the more often the students had seen the confederates in class, the more they liked them
Define similarity
-attraction to people who are like us
Define complementarity.
-attraction to people who are our opposites
Folk wisdom suggests that _____________________ but research evidence proves that it is ___________, not _____________ that draws people together.
-“opposites attract”; similarity; complementarity
In a study on male students at the university of Michigan, what did they find for who the men in the dorms became friends with?
-men who had similar demographics (rural background for ex) and similar attitudes and values
Hundred of studies have demonstrated that similarity in many domains is an important predictor of attraction in both friendships and romantic relationships. For what are similarity effects generally not as strong?
-personality
When are we also more likely to be attracted to someone?
a) They enjoy the same kinds of leisure activities that we do.
b) When they have the same attachment style.
c) When friendships are reciprocated less.
d) A and B
e) All of the above
-a) They enjoy the same kinds of leisure activities that we do.
b) When they have the same attachment style.
What cultures tend to show the strongest similarity effects?
-individualist
Why is similarity so important in attraction? Explain two explanations. (2)
-people that are similar to us will be more likely to like us
-people that are similar provide social validation for our characteristics and beliefs, they reinforce them
Define the rewards-of-interaction explanation for why similarity is so important in attraction.
-if a person feels the same way we do on important issues, we assume it would be enjoyable to spend time with them
Can attraction lead to a perception of similarity?
-yes
__________ _____________ predicts liking and attraction better than ______ ___________.
-perceived similarity; actual similarity
Define reciprocal liking
-liking someone who likes us in return
____________ is a prime determinant of interpersonal attraction?
-reciprocal liking
What did the study on reciprocal liking where they paired students up and for someone people implied the person liked them and for others implied they didn’t like them show?
-reciprocal liking can come about because of a self-fulfilling prophecy (you act more likeable or not)
Reciprocal liking effects can occur only if you ________________________________?
-like yourself in the first place
When it comes to physical attractiveness vs. personality in terms of desire which is more important? Does this change from women to men? (2)
-physical attractiveness
-no they score the same
___________ seems to be the only thing that matters, at least in situations in which strangers are forming their first impressions of each other.
-appearance
Researchers got female students to rate the desirability of a male photo while attaching them to lie detector tests. What did they find?
-people are aware they base their evaluations on looks, but feel they shouldn’t admit this
Women and men tend to share a similar set of criteria for defining beauty. Which characteristics did they both tend to find more attractive? (3)
-large eyes
-prominent cheekbones
-big smile