Chapter 9 Flashcards
1
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- Social intelligence
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– the ability to communicate and relate effectively to others.
2
Q
- Emotional intelligence
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– the ability to recognize our own emotions and the emotions of others, and behave in ways that have a positive impact on how others feel.
3
Q
- Interpersonal communication skills
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– how well we communicate when interacting with others
4
Q
- Human relations skills
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– how well we relate to and treat others
5
Q
- Passive listening
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– hearing the words with our ears, but mot thinking about those words with our mind because our mind is somewhere else
6
Q
- Active listening
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– making an effortful attempt to focus full attention on the speaker’s message.
7
Q
- Erotic love
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– relationship involves intense physical arousal and passion; attention focused on partner’s appearance most
8
Q
- Impulsivity:
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partners can quickly “fall into” love
9
Q
- Intense emotions
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- a surge of chemicals are released in the body and brain
10
Q
- Idealism
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- the partners perceive each other and the relationship as being “perfect”
11
Q
- Attachment and dependency
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– the lovers feel insecure without each other and can’t bear being separated.
12
Q
- Possessiveness and jealousy
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- each lover feels that he or she has exclusive rights to the partner and jealous of anyone else who interacts with the partner.
