Chapter 8- Creating Love Flashcards
Love is all about…
Creating connections in all situations
Love is based on…
Direct emotional transfer
The love process starts with…
Light and Deep rapport
After introducing topics by light rapport while making love…
Accept what she says and continue with I perspective- “ I don’t know how it is for you, but for me…”
The third step of love…
“Whenever I_________, I feel ____________
Avoid basic emotions, and don’t describe the emotion itself
The fourth step of love is?
Confirmation, ask for a yes “Do you know what I mean?”
One effective group of love topics are…
Relate your childhood to the present
The biggest no-no when creating love is…
LYING!
When entering rapport… (3 things)
1- Be one-on-one with her
2- lean in, convey more interest than attraction
3- make eye contact or look down
The four types of rapport are…
1- Eager Rapport
2- Negative Rapport
3- Unexpected Rapport
4- Forced Rapport
The Eager rapport topics…
Are the topics that first come to a woman’s mind and says. She wants to build on that topic and it is often the easiest one to build on
The negative rapport topics…
Are topics about bad things that have happened to her or someone
The unexpected rapport topics…
Are the topics that she brings up but doesn’t expect me to build rapport on
The forced rapport topics…
Is something really bad that happened to her that cannot be ignored
The best rapport to build on is…
Unexpected rapport, because the woman will know that you can build connections on everything
