Chapter 7- Body Language Flashcards
One of the most important aspects of an interaction is…
Body Language
Its not what you say but…
how you say it
Body language creates what crucial aspect?
Subconscious attraction
Lead the body…
the mind will follow
Eye accessing:Looking up accesses…
The visual brain
Eye accessing: Looking to the right accesses…
memory/recall
Eye accessing: Looking down accesses….
Emotions
Eye accessing: Looking to the left accesses…
Creative/ Conceptual brain
A sign of an emotional connection is when…
A woman looks down
Triangulation is when….
A woman looks at both eyes and your mouth in a triangular motion
When a woman triangulates she wants to…
kiss you
When a woman triangulates I can say…
“It’s okay, you can kiss me. I wanna kiss you too”
Key points on body language during attraction (4 things)
1- Don’t face girl directly
2- Move with legs, not upper body
3- Put weight on front foot
4- Show both positive and negative body language
Dominant body language…
Takes up as much space as possible
Submissive body language….
Small, takes up little space
3 traits to an attractive walk?
1- wide strides landing on heels
2- Keep shoulders down and back
3- Keep back straight
When Standing and sitting… (4 things)
1- Take up as much space as possible
2- Open legs
3- Keep head up
4- Keep back straight
When do I speak from throat and stomach?
Throat- during attraction
Stomach- During seduction
Speaking from the throat…
has higher pitch and range of voice, I have ability to speak faster
Speaking from the stomach
Creates vibration and resonates physically and emotionally.
Three very important points on voice?
1- End sentences on down notes
2- Eliminate “Um” and “Uh”. It is better to be silent
3- Feel free to laugh
Attraction indicator #1
Looking Down
Attraction indicator #2
Hair Twirling
Attraction indicator #3
Leaning in
Attraction indicator #4
Triangulation
Attraction indicator #5
Initiating or escalating touch
Attraction indicator #6
Compliance Test
Attraction indicator #7
Congruence Test
Attraction indicator #8
Positive Body Language
Attraction indicator #9
Initiating conversations
Attraction indicator #10
Qualifying