Chapter 3- Confidence Flashcards

1
Q

Men are Attractive because of…

A

CONFIDENCE

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2
Q

A- Confidence makes attractiveness
or
B- Attractiveness makes confidence

A

A- Confidence makes attractiveness

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3
Q

Confidence is….

A

The ability to increase the value of others

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4
Q

The crucial part of confidence is….

A

Body Language

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5
Q

Body Language traced back to…

A

Emotions

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6
Q

and Emotions trace back to…

A

Beliefs

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7
Q

So the main influence of Body language is your….

A

Beliefs

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8
Q

One will only be successful with women if…..

A

his BELIEFS match up

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9
Q

Changing Beliefs Step 1

A

Challenge- the validity of your beliefs

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10
Q

Challenging Beliefs Step 2

A

Accept- the new belief in place

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11
Q

Challenging Beliefs Step 3

A

Proclaim- the belief to others while stating it as a fact

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12
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Challenging Beliefs Step 4

A

Feedback- Pick up other people’s reactions

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13
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Challenging Beliefs Step 5

A

Submit- Your beliefs as Fact when people agree

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14
Q

Women love men that…. (3 things)

A

1- have high perceived self-worth
2- gets better everyday
3- Believes that he is attractive

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15
Q

Insecurities are only bad if…..

A

you HIDE them

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16
Q

When women see you tackle your insecurities….

A

Women see you as someone who is improving

17
Q

A six….

A

has SUPPLICATE dymanics and begs for acceptance

18
Q

How to deal with a six

A

Accept them: “You know what? I like you. You’re a cool guy”

19
Q

A seven….

A

has COMBATIVE dynamics, only wants to decrease the value of others because he can’t increase his own

20
Q

How to deal with a seven

A

Don’t beat them, praise them: “You know, a lot of people don’t speak their mind and I really respect that you speak your mind as much as you do”

21
Q

An eight….

A

has COMPETITIVE dynamics, only feels respected if he can beat someone at something

22
Q

How to deal with an eight

A

Give him admiration for what he does and his performance in the given competition

23
Q

A 9/10…

A

has COOPERATIVE dynamics