Chapter 3- Confidence Flashcards
Men are Attractive because of…
CONFIDENCE
A- Confidence makes attractiveness
or
B- Attractiveness makes confidence
A- Confidence makes attractiveness
Confidence is….
The ability to increase the value of others
The crucial part of confidence is….
Body Language
Body Language traced back to…
Emotions
and Emotions trace back to…
Beliefs
So the main influence of Body language is your….
Beliefs
One will only be successful with women if…..
his BELIEFS match up
Changing Beliefs Step 1
Challenge- the validity of your beliefs
Challenging Beliefs Step 2
Accept- the new belief in place
Challenging Beliefs Step 3
Proclaim- the belief to others while stating it as a fact
Challenging Beliefs Step 4
Feedback- Pick up other people’s reactions
Challenging Beliefs Step 5
Submit- Your beliefs as Fact when people agree
Women love men that…. (3 things)
1- have high perceived self-worth
2- gets better everyday
3- Believes that he is attractive
Insecurities are only bad if…..
you HIDE them
When women see you tackle your insecurities….
Women see you as someone who is improving
A six….
has SUPPLICATE dymanics and begs for acceptance
How to deal with a six
Accept them: “You know what? I like you. You’re a cool guy”
A seven….
has COMBATIVE dynamics, only wants to decrease the value of others because he can’t increase his own
How to deal with a seven
Don’t beat them, praise them: “You know, a lot of people don’t speak their mind and I really respect that you speak your mind as much as you do”
An eight….
has COMPETITIVE dynamics, only feels respected if he can beat someone at something
How to deal with an eight
Give him admiration for what he does and his performance in the given competition
A 9/10…
has COOPERATIVE dynamics
