Chapter 8 Flashcards
The Nature of the Child
Drive for independence from parents expands the social world.
In middle childhood, children want to do things themselves.
Self-concept
The Nature of the Child
- Ideas about self that include intelligence, personality, abilities, gender, and ethnic background
- Ages 6 and 11 (average)
Erikson’s Stage Theory: School age (6-12 years)
- Conflict: Industry vs. Inferiority
- Resolution or “Virtue:” Competence
- Culmination in old age: Humility; acceptance of the course of one’s life and unfulfilled hopes
Social Comparison
Abilities: Social Comparison
Involves tendency to assess one’s abilities, achievements, social status, and other attributes by measuring them against those of other people, especially one’s peers
• Children value the abilities they have and become more realistic.
• Recognition of prejudice and affirming pride in gender and background increases.
Self-concept becomes influenced by…
Abilities: Social Comparison
opinions of others, materialism, and superficial attributes
Industry versus inferiority
The Nature of the School-Age Children
– Fourth of Erikson’s psychosocial crises
– Characterized by tension between productivity and
incompetence
Children attempt to…
The Nature of the School-Age Children
master culturally valued skills and develop a sense of themselves as either industrious or inferior, competent or incompetent.
Signs of Psychological Maturation Developing Between Ages 6 and 11
- Responsibly perform specific chores
- Manage a weekly allowance and activities
- Complete homework
- Attempt to conform to peers
- Express preferences for after-school hours
- Accept some responsibility for pets, younger children
- Strive for independence from parents
Culture and Self-Esteem
• Cultures and families differ in which attitudes and accomplishments they value.
• Emerging self-perception benefits academic and social competence.
• Praise for process—not static qualities—encourages growth.
– Incremental versus entity concept of growth
3 factors that influence attitudes about
self-esteem
(Protect or Puncture Self-Esteem?)
Culture, cohort, and age
Traditional research findings suggest
Protect or Puncture Self-Esteem?
unrealistically high and unrealistically low self-esteem
– Reduces effortful control
– May lead to lower achievement and increased aggression
Some current research links
Protect or Puncture Self-Esteem?
low self-esteem with increased aggression; other findings link inflated self-esteem with male bullying and aggression.
Resilience
Resilience and Stress
Capacity to adapt well to significant adversity and to
overcome serious stress
Important components
Resilience and Stress
Dominant ideas about resilience from 1965 to present day
• Resilience is dynamic
• Resilience is a positive adaptation to stress
• Adversity must be significant
Resilience is dynamic
Resilience and Stress
a person may be resilient at some periods but not at others.
Resilience is a positive adaptation to stress
Resilience and Stress
if rejection by a parent leads a child to establish a closer relationship with another adult, that child is resilient.
Adversity must be significant
Resilience and Stress
Resilient children overcome conditions that overwhelm many of their peers.
Cumulative Stress
• Accumulated stresses over time is more devastating than an isolated major stressor, e..g., disruptive home, hunger
• Daily hassles can be more detrimental than isolated
major stress
• Social context imperative
– Child soldiers
– Homeless children
– Separation after natural disaster
Factors contributing to resilience
Cognitive Coping
- Child’s interpretation of events: How they process and internalize traumatic events
- Support of family and community
- Personal strengths such as creativity and intelligence: Nature and Nurture
- Avoidance of parentification
Parentification
When a child acts more like a parent than a child. This may occur if the actual parents do not act as caregivers, making a child feel responsible for the family
Family function (Family Function / Structure)
- The way a family works to meet the needs of its members
* Function is more important than structure but harder to measure
During middle childhood, families help children by
Family Function / Structure
- Providing basic material necessities
- Encouraging learning
- Helping them develop self-respect
- Nurturing friendships
- Fostering harmony and stability
Family structure (Family Function / Structure)
- Legal and genetic relationships among relatives living in the same home
- Includes nuclear family, extended family, stepfamily, and others.